Guess who the republicans are?

...a lil uncle tom-like Mr. Elder.

West Clears the Air

Incorrect sources blasted that Kanye West recently made claims to the title of King of Pop. Here's the truth from Kanye himself.

I WAS JUST LISTENING TO WENDY WILLIAMS AND HEARD SOME QUOTE ABOUT ME SAYING I’M THE NEW KING OF POP. NOT ONLY DID I NOT SAY THAT, I HAVEN’T SAID ANYTHING. IT MAKES ME FEEL BAD THAT OBVIOUSLY I MADE PEOPLE FEEL THAT I WOULD BE CORNY ENOUGH TO SAY SOMETHING SO WHACK AFTER THE PASSING OF AN IDOL, A LEGEND AND MORE THAN THAT A HUMAN BEING WITH FEELINGS AND FAMILY. IT SCARES ME TO THINK WHAT PEOPLE WILL BELIEVE, WITHOUT EVEN A SOURCE. ANY RANDOM PERSON CAN TYPE SOMETHING ON THE INTERNET AND THEN THE WORLD BELIEVES IT. I DON’T TALK TO PRESS OR DO TV OR DO PROMOTIONS OF ANY SORT. I’VE STOPPED CHASING AND BUYING INTO FAME. FAME IS LIKE CIGARETTES WITH NO SURGEON GENERAL WARNING. IT DESTROYS MOST PEOPLE AS IT DID TO THE TRUE AND ONLY KING OF POP. WE EXPLOIT OURSELVES AND EAT OUR OWN EGOS ‘TILL THERE IS NOTHING LEFT. I HAVE A FEELING THAT THIS WON’T BE THE LAST FALSE STATEMENT WITH MY NAME ON IT, BUT THIS WILL BE THE LAST TIME I DEFEND MYSELF. I’M DONE.

Via Kanye's Blog

Damn Global Warming....

Ok I gotta pick the Super Amazonian Homie Evita up as she returns from Japan and the flight is ALREADY delayed 2 hrs due to weather. I thank global warming for fucking up this years NY Summer.

Ghostface Speaks & New Wu Music

Raekwon – House Of Flying Daggers (Feat. Inspectah Deck, Ghostface & Method Man) (Produced by J Dilla)

Via Miss Info & Onsmash

Guest Blog Duty

Hey drop By Goddess Intellect and show some luv to the Canadian homie. I guest bloggeg over there today with a Sex & Fitness post.You already know. ;)

Caribana Weekend in T-Dot

I was supposed to be in Toronto this weekend. Oh well......

Green M&M's?????

I got home last night to the music blogs all dropping this "diss" track from Eminem vs. Mariah Carey and Nick Cannon . I listened to it and musically & lyrically it's a ill song BUT this falls in a funny category for me. I can't cosign a grown man going in on a female for denying they had a relationship. Especially as the female has moved on and gotten married.

The Hip Hop lover in me puts Em right on top as one of the best to ever do it. But as a man he loses points for this. Is that how we behave guys? I mean yes if some I had a relationship denied it ever happened there are basically 2 rationales. A)The person means a lot to me so I'd be hurt. B)They don't mean much so you brush it off. In the event that "A" is the way you feel do you then run around "airing out" your business? I can't help but think Em is to some degree envious of he's targets this time around.

Naw man no bueno.

Turning Word into Action

It's been on the stands, on the radio, TV, internets, etc....so the question is.Is/has anybody put the 90 day theory of Mr Steve Harvey to actual use. Now that doesn't mean you met a guy don't give him any for a 2 weeks than y'all lose interest. I mean who has put a month+ into a new potential mate and are still working the 90 or have completed 90 days. I'm curious if it was just good talk when the book came out or if folk are applying it? No judgment, just curious.

69: Sharing is Caring

I just realized I have 69 subscribers sooooo what better post to drop then one about the orally(is that a word?) stimulating position of the same name.Some say its hard to concentrate when in this position. I see it as a game. Who can pleasure who to the point that they can't continue doing what they're supposed to be doing. lol
Devilish delights.

Hump Day Thoughts....Wifey Status

Is wifey a good thing? How does it differ from a wife? Is it just a name/title not to be taken too seriously? Is it a mere a nice way to refer to your #1 girl(which means you have a few females.)Personally I gained a serious disdain for the word based around the people that used it. In a society where marriage seems to be losing more and more desirability it seems like "wifey" is the downgraded no name brand version of Wife. Like it's the trouble making lil sister of Wife. I mean perhaps the positive standing of wifey is relative to where you are in life. If the idea of marriage isn't in your immediate set of goals then perhaps its no big deal.

Thoughts, feelings.....is it a good thing to be a wifey?
Is Rhianna Wifey material? As fine as she is I'd see Rhianna as wifey and not a Wife.

Kanye being Kanye

“You know everyone loves and respects Michael but times change. It’s so sad to see Michael gone but it makes a path for a new King of Pop and I’m willing to take that on. There’s nobody who can match me in sales and in kanye west respect so it only makes sense for me to take over Michael’s crown and become the new King,” said West. “First there was Elvis, then there was Michael, now in the 21st century its Kanye’s time to rule. I have nothing but respect for Michael but someone needs to pick up where he left off and there’s nobody better than me to do that. I am the new King of Pop.”

- Kanye West



Sam is not amused....

N.Y get your smart shopper on.....

I am Anti Twitter cuz.......

....of this.

Da Listening Session pays Tribute to Shaolin

As I told Kream over the weekend,

"No disrespect cuz I know your a Budden girl but I'm Shaolin to the death!!"

(My stance on the near WU/Slaughter House situation.)

So keeping with the trend of Wu Tang support my closest pal Raven and Dj Blakghost salute the dart throwing, slang editorial swordsmen from the Isle of Staten.

***CLICK HERE FOR THE STREAM***

Sex Obsessed???

1. Compulsive preoccupation with a fixed idea or an unwanted feeling or emotion, often accompanied by symptoms of anxiety.
2. A compulsive, often unreasonable idea or emotion.

The inspiration for this came not from the actual entry but the comments over on JAG's blog on Obsession. A lot of the comments mentioned that people were obsessed with sex. I always find that funny when I hear it, especially from adults. Given the definition above, are folk REALLY obsessed with sex? Or is it just something that sounds nice to say and in actuality it's just something we really like and enjoy more so then other things?

To those that TRULY feel that sex is an obsession I'd love to hear why you feel that why?Or what are/were examples of these sexually obsessive behavior? Remember, "compulsive" and "Unreasonable"

Another day......another shaved head.....

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Looking in the past to clear a Future path.....

Had a pleasant weekend. With good weather came BBQ's, Alcohol(dont need good weather for this..lol) and reminiscing about past wild times with my old high school folk. First I dipped through the streets of Mt Vernon which is always a treat....and showed love to Kream on the Industry tip at the DigiWaxx annual BBQ.



It was small industry get together. Nothing big but even checkered with a few music insider, behind the scenes makers, (wannabe)models and artists. Mims, who was/is Digiwaxx's claim to fame tried an impromptu performance but is was an true "fail" in execution and setting. Before saying my good byes I did have a very good discussion on the current crop of "artists" vs what I/we grew up on. I'll be writing about that specifically tomorrow on thehiphopdemocrat.com. But it was a pretty good time.

I then return to New Ro to touch down at my boy Joey Escobar's 29th bday gathering. This is a guy that I've known since 1st grade. We started out as enemies, as he took my glasses and left me crying in 1st grade. His pleasure was short lived as I punched him in the face and took my frames back. Since then nothing but respect. We've been thru it all party, bullshit, laughs, beef, guns, drugs the WHOLE nine. And to top it off he named his 1st born son after me....old nyc graffiti tat style.




So, after downing a couple drinks and couple shots we chatted about life.He spoke on the married life and the guys I haven't seen in a bit. And I got him caught up on me and my life. It was just ill to zone out and remember where and what you've been thru. I need more nights like this.

Here comes the Bride.....with a lil Twist.

Laugh Dammit!!!!

Role Reversal

Soooooo men wear tight jeans and women shave their heads?


Ummm, Interesting. I'm off to dig a grave for creativity and originality

Being pretty dont mean you're exempt from common sense.

Conflicting stories are out on if Nas was kept from viewing the birth of his first son by estranged wife Kelis or if he simply wasn't there. I'm really sure so I'll leave it as up for confirmation by people with better sources. This did get me to thinking about how furious I'd feel IF I was in a situation where the mother of my child prohibited me from viewing my child's birth. There's an endless list of things men aren't supposed to do to females. But I'm sitting here thinking about what are the things you absolutely do not do to a man. Now when I say this I don't mean the weakling that you know you can get over on. I mean a respectable man that you view as a peer.Emotions or not what are the lines that you do not cross. They can be verbal or physical.

Hump Day Topic: The Rules were made to be broken

...or maybe there really are no rules? We make are own rules? Perhaps that's what it is. The playing field has changed to a point that rules are guidelines are pretty subjective but hey we all do what works best for us. So, last night my homegurl Danyelle drop a blog detailing her Rules of Online Engagement. She geared it towards Twitter but it can be relatively applied to the internet over all. I didn't want to flood her comment section so I'm just blogging my thoughts to each of her rules from a different perspective, playing Devil's Advocate since nothing is that clear cut socially anymore.

So here our Danyelle's Rules of Engagement:

Rule #1- Reciprocation

Fellas, please don’t ask for a spicy flick of T&A and not reciprocate. That is rude, foul, and plain old selfish. If you want to see what I’m working with and I think of you highly enough to show it to you, I also need to see what you got. Call it being tit for tat but in reality, you only get what you give.

This one is interesting because in a perfect world a person would want an even "tit for tat" exchange but that's not always the case. Depending on the conversation(s), the style and the personalities of the people involved, it's very normal for the exchange of imagery to be very one sided. Especially in today's oversexed society there are females (not just the young ones) that send out pix simply for the certainty of continued attention. That is something that many guys feed off of and in turn fuels the all the "exposure" sites flooding the internet. I know as a man I'm very visual(which is feeding this sex tape desire of mine...) so images are great but never compromise yourself in what you release. A sexy image doesn't always mean Full Spread Eagle....right Cassie? Oh never mind :P

Rule #2- Stop the Side-eye

Bragging about how you can go all night and do this and that when chances are you are a one minute man. I know from experience that the man who usually says the least about his sexual skills is usually the one who will have me walking with the crook legs for weeks.

What I see a lot of now isn't as much direct bragging. But I see tons of amateur tutorials and "how to" blogs/posts. I look at it like this. Everything you've done that has had a positive response only holds as much weight as the person you had it with. This is similar to the "Your Pussy ain't Platinum: post from a while ago. Outside of porn stars we don't really need the so many BJ guides. In truth the bragging just makes us think "damn how many dicks you sucking?!?!" Many times the best thing that could be said of how you get down is by the person you got down with. ;)

Rule #3- Don’t Get Played

Fellas, if you think you’ve got a live one and she is giving you some e-attention, don’t let it go to your head. This is, after all, the Internet, and chances are if she was quick to give up virtual pussy to you, she’s DMing and AIMing the next guy. GQ, she is NOT your lady and this is NOT a real relationship so don’t get it twisted. As females, we will always get more attention from dudes online than you will from the ladies, so keep that in mind. Unless the two of you have met in person and kicked off the sex a few times in the real world and she has shown genuine interest while there is crust in your eyes during the morning after, this is not serious.


LOL, this reminds me of a convo I had with one of my boys a couple years a ago. I'm on myspace prior to our poker game, my boy sees my page and says "Damn she all over your comments man that's wassup you gonna get that?" I replied "No it's not that type of party." He was confused and I broke it down to him that what he saw as attractive images and flirtation on my page was in actuality the way this person communicates with everyone. I had no intentions on assuming there was that serious of an interest in me just to end up as a convenient ego boost for her. The internet can lead to instant gratification which the mind wasn't originally intended to get. And if you're not careful you get caught up in it all.

Rule #4- e-Stalking? NO!

This rule coincides with the previous rule. If you two decide to take your innanet sex love tryst to a whole ‘nother level and it doesn’t work out (which most of the time it won’t….womp womp), don’t e-Stalk. Women like to be chased but not backed up into a damn corner suffocating and breathing for air. Don’t over tweet or DM or AIM or BBM or whatever you do to communicate with her because it will probably make her block your ass and report you to the authorities. Know when to give it up and turn it loose, and hopefully your ego will be able to stay intact.

Damn this is one of the primary evils of the internet. When things are all good then the emails and IM access is lovely but once that person crosses the line and becomes someone you'd rather forget, the reach of technology can be a hell of a burden. Some things you can block, but others may not be as easy. And who wants to be blogging or whatever with the fear that the guy you turned down 4 months ago is silently following your every post. Its just too damn creepy.

Rule #5- Get a Real Girlfriend

There is nothing wrong with a little e-sex or phone boning or sexting, but if you are using Twitter and Myspace and Facebook as your primary way of hooking up, you are lame. Get out and interact with real females in your area and/or city. No one wants to read your tweets about being lonely or not being out on a date. The best way to rectify this is to get out and get you some real trim. If you can’t do that, then chances are, you need counseling of some kind.

I'd extend this further into "Get/Have a real life." When dealing with the opposite sex, no matter how active you are online. You should not have your on and offline life so closely intertwined. For example if you communicate online initially when meeting a person, should you meet in real life then leave the technology alone for a bit. Don't be blogging or twittering during your time with this person. Give the respect of dealing one on one with him or her and stop trying to feed the curious of your "followers" with live updates. It's really rude. You should never have an issue justing turning the internet off for a few moments.

Rule #6- Don’t Be a e-Hoe

If your entire timeline consists of you hollering at a bunch of chicks, while clever, this will do nothing but give us women watching a side-eye. Yes, we will view you as suspect. It also screams desperate and creepy too. Of course women and men like to get their flirt on, but if that is ALL you do, you may need an internet timeout for a bit.


I'm torn on this one because from a lot of things I've seen online, especially on Twitter now. Being an E-Hoe seems to get you more attention. So this one is on you. Folk know I'm "Say less do more" type but Online Attention whoring (both male and female) does seem to pay dividends for some people. I wouldn't suggest it living in the realm on Online TMI 24/7 but if it works for you then do your thing.


Feel free to drop those comments and thoughts if anything here has ever remotely applied to you. The social world is so open now that we all have tales to tell. Don't worry about rules so much just try to be safe and true.

Tuff Break!!!!

Get off the High Horse...........

I'm not even going to post the vid cause it can be find anywhere.But it will never cease to amaze me how many judgmental, holier then thou folk have access to the internet and are chiming in on C.Browns public apology. Quite frankly I don't think he should have said anything cause the public has nothing to do with it. He's not your homie, Rhianna ain't ya "bbf" so really the public's "acceptance" of this is only about saving his professional career. Although I'm sure he'll be fine in the end.

I've seen quite a few females get the back hand or the fist.I've seen even more female do it at men who were then restrained from fighting back. Let's keep it moving and just keep your hands to yourself.

Obey Your Thrist

Rep ya Nation on BBM

Image Via CB

The following symbol/letter combos system accesses new national flags on BBM.

*XX* = Flag

In other words if you wanted Australia you put in *AU*

Go here to find the 2 letter code for any country(The Domincan Flag isn't accessible for some reason.The Heights are pissed)

Good Move....Joey.

The overdue apology


Wu Tang still ain't nothing to FucC with.

New BBM 5.0 Update

New links for the new Blackberry Messenger.Access these links on your BB browser.

Blackberry Tour (4.7.1) - http://tiny.cc/9630BB5
Blackberry Storm (4.7.0) - http://tiny.cc/95XXBBM5
Blackberry Bold (4.6.0) - http://tiny.cc/9000BBM5
Blackberry Curve 8900 (4.6.1) - http://tiny.cc/8900BBM5
Blackberry Curve 83XX/88XX (4.5.0) - http://tiny.cc/83XXBB5

Review Video

CracCBery Bliss for the Weekend : NEW BB MESSENGER LEAKS

VIA Crackberry

We have all gotten a good look at the new BlackBerry messenger on numerous occasions. Now, you can download an unofficial release (leaked version!) to your device and check it out hands on for yourself. All versions have been posted at BlackBerryOS right down to a compatible version for 83xx devices. The Storm, Tour, Bold and 8900 are all there. Be sure to check it out and remember, these are leaked and NOT official - if you lose all your BBM contacts we cannot be held responsible so back up your data before you try these! Only play around with this if you're comfortable in doing so.

To install via standard method, download the zip to your pc and extract. From there you open Desktop Manager, then Application Loader, browse to the folder containing the file and continue on. If that doesn't work, you can try copying the files to where your OS is installed and overwrite the existing ones. Then run and load Desktop Manager it should now show as 5.0 BBM.

Click Here for Downloads

The REAL Reality T.V......

16 and Pregnant should be required High School viewing.(Maybe middle school?)



It's actually a pretty good dose of honest reality. A view of what certain actions can result in.There's room for all types of entertainment. We just need balance to give real life perspective to what the world really has in store for the youth.

Rhianna gives the Green Light!!!!!!

Everyone's fav "fashion chic" has declared it shaving season.


Cassie got tons of heat for her "publicity stunt".


Then LaLa made it cute.


This is now the official light skinned female hair style.You have been warned.

In the Club

From 2000-2008 I was a club promoter and marketing guy.I pushed parties in NY and assisted a few record labels with their promotions on albums and other projects.Cool stuff when I was younger, but greed and ego among other things made me decide to leave it alone last summer. I've been to tons of loungers and bar and the once in a blu birthday party. Or I've come through to show love to someone that's throwing a party. With the exception of being out of town of entertaining visitors do I ever really "club" anymore.

Well last nite I was asked to checking out club HOME with my boy for a possible red carpet event he is planning on throwing. I said fine......smh @ that. My evening started very chaotic in having to link up with my people and then getting to the club an hr late. With my mood already being salty I wasn't in the mood to drink (imagine that).Even with the special shots of Hennesey Dark going around I just wanted to get the work done, talk to whoever needed to be spoken too and get home.

While waiting for things to be handled I was quickly reminded of why I don't club. All the goods and bad of the party scene were on full display. You had your yummy eye candy, I was being eye sexed but this busty asian chic.(a few of u will laff at that), you had your hood rats which included one group that came with the token whie gurl that had floppy double D's falling out of her dress while grinding on various black men, you had the dirty bird that pulled her skirt up to "drop it fast" never once showing any issue with exposing her baggy panties and ashy legs, you had the "ballers" and celebs of which Ms Steph Lover was looking very nice and you had random people you know (classmates, coworkers,etc) that you haven't seen in years.

Overall I'd rather be in bed getting a massage........don't know if this event will be set up or not.If it does I'll see what the potential profit is from it but oh man was I happy to get home. And even though I'm now running on about 2 hrs of sleep It interesting to see the growth in my social interaction. In spite of the T & A and the interesting looks and stares I was getting it, its' really YOU that makes a party. That's why I love when I get to chill with Mz.J or my trips to Sobe with the fellas. As you get older its more about the people your with then the noise of the venue.

Pix coming later...............

Super Head on The Today Show..........

a Fail for women or a Win for Blow Job enthusiasts???

Pornstars Twitter?............Really

Porn via Twitter......the internet is the gateway to Hell.lol

HAPPY HUMP DAY

Hope the day is treating everyone well.No real "humpish" issues on my mind at the moment. Just taking it easy today. Throwing out a few pleasurable images and we'll see what the day produces.











That should be enough for now.......