So this past Saturday I met up with a friend to cool out and just get my mind right. As she chatted on her recent issues I couldn’t help but realize that again I was right. All my people know I observe my surroundings. This is offline and online. I watch before I speak. I see people’s patterns, behavioral styles; it’s just how I am. So in listening to my friend tell her story it was actually like hearing it for a second time. I had to interrupt to ask a question and satisfy my own curiosity. “Ay, is this story about you and what’s his face from the party??” Stunned look, pause, she laughs……”Yeah it is but it wasn’t that serious at that point. How’d You?” “It was pretty apparent, at least to me it was.” In truth, I personally care little for people business in that way but I like knowing my perceptive abilities are still on par. I need to be able to know what’s going on around me at all times. This is especially important regarding how men and women interact because the source of so many issues and ugly situations ends up being somehow related to that. And with me having a good number of close female friends the Guardian in me is just naturally on the look out.
Honestly it’s very hard to conceal chemistry, or the spark or whatever you wanna call it. As guys I it’s more nature and harder to read or maybe you have to be a woman to notice it. But in observing a woman, and how one acts around certain people you can see the difference. It’s all over her face, her eyes, and the slight physical interactions that only happen between them. I see the invisible writing and I read it well.
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