I admit it and own it that I judge the hell outta life. You do something bad I have a feeling on it, I succeed a thought on it, I do something crazy I'm hear for you and in my own personal mental space I have a view on it. I was having this convo while returning to NY this past Sunday and it was realized that "Hey, there's nothing wrong with judging." My stance is that as long as I'm not giving and project my judgment upon another person the I'm completely free to get my judge on.
In all honesty I see our natural instinct to judge and being another part of the general common sense we are all equipped with. The internal judgment tells you to keep ya dick away from the attractive single female with 3 kids from 2 men, it tells you to pass on the party invite from the guy that is always talking about the latest fight he was in. And it works in conjunction with my trigger words to keep me from wasting time with folk who are more talk then action.
Don't get caught up in the technical wording of it. Be opinionated, be forceful in your views and JUDGE!!! Within yourself ask just how much you would want to be in the shoes of the person in question and trust me it'll help you out more then you would think. It's not about being P.C but being realistic.
Tuesday, August 10, 2010
Here comes the damn Judge......
Posted by NightFall914 at 2:03 PM
Labels: For your safety, life lessons, OPINIONS, THOUGHTS
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1 comments:
I definitely like this one and agree with what you're saying. We all like to say we're non-judgmental, but who really is?
We judge each other all the time, it'll never end. We're human beings and most of us have opinions. It's hard to keep those opinions to ourselves at times, but I think as long as we express them in a positive way, to help others learn it's alright.
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