Communication....I have a gang of emails, specifically given to certain people, Multiple phones numbers and of course work and home addresses.If a person wanted to reach it VERY easy to do so.I'm very particular with who gets what level of access to me.Sooooo with all the online access and mobile phones out there, the fastest way to urk me is to not reply when I reach out.Now I'm reasonable with this.We're all busy at times yes so if you cant get to me in a speedy fashion just make sure when you do you let me know wassup.If you don't inform and just blow off the call,text or email.I see as you saying "OK, this person isn't worth me taking the time to reply to"
.Lets be honest.How long does it take you to send a text msg saying "Sorry.Busy.Hit u later"........15sec tops?Maybe less?
And the more important you are too me( was that mean?)....OK the closer you are to me the more weight I place on this issue of communication.Sometimes I think I'm the one that's crazy.I try to be pretty logical with what I do as to not cause confusion or conflict(which is another pet peeve) so when I see common sense thrown out the window it urks me to no end.Because the moment I'm "needed" for something that communication will be real consistent again.
I appreciate that folk feel secure coming to me with problems but remember that from my end of things it nice to hear from people when nothing is going on as well.
Monday, December 1, 2008
Pet Peeve.....
Posted by NightFall914 at 11:38 AM
Labels: Communication, Pet Peeves
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I think its cool when a men gives me different options to contact him. Not saying that this post was relationship based, BUT at the same time, I am going there with it because I am personally in a similar situation. You have nothing to hide, you are being up front and honest and open. Putting it out there. You got it (meaning them) now use it. If you don't screw u. :P
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