Monday, January 26, 2009

Think about it Truthfully and Honestly

People say friendship are 50% but I don't think we actual believe that or at least we don't follow that 100%.Honestly think if you had to cut off every friend that doesn't treat you as well as you treat them who would you be left with? Then flip it.If each friend that treats YOU better then you treat them left who would you be left with?

5 comments:

Bombchell said...

hmm Im not sure. i think we each have our good and bad times.

what got me thinking yesterday is "your friends are a reflection of u."

I would rather not. lol I make all kinds of friends, my sisters are more like me though

JuJu said...

i kno if i cut off the friends who didnt treat me as well as i treated them i'd be left with maybe ONE friend.. :( i always seem to be the extra nice friend who gives a damn too much..

JaeSpenc said...

I'd have ONE friend... lol Period... But that's what I've done this year. Cut off the excess...

Your friends are your friends for a reason. You have to at somepoint decide if they're worth the bullshit they put off and if you can take how they're treating you.

when the answer is no...
you walk.
simple as that.

Jillian said...

i would say that i hope you don't look at it as an eye for an eye...b/c sometimes you have friends that fufill certain needs...you have your friend friends...then you have your friends/associates....i know who i go out of my way for and that is typically for those who do the same..

NightFall914 said...

@ Bombchell
My closet friends especially the men do reflect a lot of who I am and what I stand for.

@JuJu
Yeah I find myself in that position a lot.It's just part of my nature.

@Jae
Yeah, truthfully is goes deep then merely treating someone better or not. I just don't think you ever what to feel that you care more for people then they do for you.

@Jillz
Very true.All friend aren't on an equal field truthfully.But I can say that the action of my inner circle gets watched very carefully by me. I'm sure past experiences just keep me on guard as to not be used by anyone.

 
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