You're in a relationship. You've always been attractive to your partner from day 1. But as time progresses they start to put on weight.5 lbs, 10lbs.....30lbs. Is it foul if you no longer will attracted to this person. And if so how do you handle it? Would you stay? Go? I'm leaving the type of relationship and other details open to interpretation to get a wide array of thoughts/views.
Thursday, July 9, 2009
Is it Shallow or Legit Expectations????
Posted by NightFall914 at 11:34 AM
Labels: Fitness, Imagery, it is what it is, more cushion for the pushing, Step Yo Game Up, That's Foul, things I don't like, THOUGHTS
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I'd leave cause i have a warning sign on my forehead that says if you weigh more than me your gonna workout or we're gonna breakup... but i also think it's realistic to expect your significant other to perserve their sexy...Now i dont mean if yall are married divorce them but i do mean help them get back in shape. iSUPPORT SEXY PRESERVATION..
I think it depends on where u are in the relationship. The deeper in you are the more you should stick it out and try to motivate. But if you're just on some this is my cut buddy status then you're free to bounce with little more then "Hey, I"m not feeling you anymore."
It's foul but its reality.
lol u so crazy. well if yall are eating together you'll prob be the same size.
Hey Nightfall Baby!
Ookay, I'm going to keep shit very real. IF I HAD a man, who gained 50 to 100lbs, it is APPARENT that he is enduring some sort of emotional dismay that has either derived from our possibly stressful/emotionally draining relationship OR OR OR OR OR he has some issues that stem from some other facet of his life.
EITHER WAY IT GOES, he needs help. I would stay in the relationship to help him address his emotional problems, suggest therapy, and/or exercise with my man and cook healthier yummy foods that can help him get healthy.
NOW IF HIS ASS DON'T WANT NO HELP NOR IS HE HELPING HIMSELF AND HE JUST WANTS TO KEEP GETTING FAT AND SHIT to THE POINT WHERE HE CAN'T SEE HIS OWN DICK NO MORE and HE HUFFIN AND PUFFIN AFTER JUST A FEW FOOTS STEPS THEN I'm LEAVING HIS ASS NO PROBLEM. Not to mention his DICK GAME IS PROBABLY LAZY! FUCK THAT.
Oh, but I'll love him forever. But I'm sure I would fall outta love with someone who no longer loves themselves enough to take care of themselves. I just can't do it.
Forever Fabulous,
The Single Dame
P.S. You know what's up, fuck a spell check, pardon all typos & shit that don't make since.
I've always wondered what it would be like to get with a heavy weight lover...BUT I also want a lover who is fit because endurance is very important and if you are not at a healthy weight you will probably not perform at your best in bed....but i mean naturally big dudes can be fit too right? I guess its not the weight as much as its the BMI..."boo what is your BMI?" lmaoooo I'm a start asking that
Yeah i think it's definitely a question of whats behind the weight gain. I do have a rule that if I can make time in my schedule to work out you better as well. If a job required a certain fitness level, you'd reach it to earn that $$ so why be any much focused toward your partner?
I'm a fat chick...if you got with me fat, then you must like it...
If my partner gained weight, I wouldn't care... I love beyond body weight. Unconditional..is what I think it used to be called.
I think we're focusing on weight GAIN a bit too much... Some men get with women because they're thick or even big (chubby chasers)... and LEAVE THEM if they lose weight...
... It's a matter of " I got w/ you because I was drawn to you as you were in the moment that we began."... If you step outside that realm then it's up to the other party to decide how to proceed.
... If you or I get fat and you make it clear (by words or actions (withdrawing sexually/romantically) that you're not interested or turned on anymore, then it's MY job to say FUCK YOU and your SUPERFICIAL ASS or to lose the weight and try to reign you back in...
... just my two cents.
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