The following was a comment made on a Single Black Male blog entry. You can peep it in it's entirety here.
Fellas, if you find a woman who can have emotionless sex, leave her alone. She has issues. I know it’s hard to turn down the easy romp, but trust me, leave her alone...
You, know I think that may be one of the most accurate things I've come across in a good bit. As much as folk say they can do it and as much as men claim they want it. Who has really come across a female that genuinely separates sex and emotion? That seems to go against much of the female nature. Obviously I'm not a female but be it from my boys or my female friends sex has always had some degree of emotion to it. That can vary in respect to the person but in time the longer that relationship maintains its a certain thing that someone will develop feelings stronger then just physical activity.
I don't know, just thinking/blogging out loud...lol
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Well, I personally have to say 100% untrue. I guess you'd have to define crazy. Interestingly enough, in this case crazy seems to be defined as a woman acting "like a man" .. hmm.
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Good way to see the flip side of this.
This was very interesting because I only know one woman in my circle who can do this and she (while yes she's my girl) has some deep issues.
I did this in younger years, and it lead to a very promiscuous period because the way i numbed the emotions was to move from one to the next, to the next, and so on...
i would say to stay away from a man or woman going through that now. Whether or not they have deep issues, they definitely are lost.
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