There has been a change in perspective. Not long ago the sight of a cute college school girl would get a smile and a nod of approval from the guys. They would populate the clubs, the beaches and most of our hangout spots and all was good. But now that same youth isn't viewed the same. It many times comes with a idea of naivety or lacking of life experience. The comments usually go like this. "Yeah she's cute but she's a kid" As you get older and deal with the issues of life you better appreciate those that are dealing with or have dealt with these life struggles and managed to maintain their sexy appeal.
I had this chat with my boy at the gym. You realize why older women utilize things like school girl outfits for role playing. As men we always appreciate the energy and fresh vibe of youth but at this point of 30 yrs old I think we more so appreciate the all-in-one woman that can turn that on when needed. I was reading a note of FB about cougars and how they were intimidating younger girls. It makes me think of the funny dynamic of men and women. As kids girls wanted to date the older "more mature" men, then those men would leave them eventually for younger girls. As those original females get older they then turn their attention to younger men who like these older females who are in their sexual prime.
Older vs Younger
Energy vs Experience
Who knows, to each their own but I will say that a well put together mature style is a beautiful thing. Some ladies can make 40 look like the new 30. I'm not mad at it.
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