I really think that many people don't know how to react to positive energy from the opposite sex. I get this without fail and it always makes me stop and wander. I think at times if I'd rather have folk create their own internal reason to be mad at me thus severing ties, which has happened before, vs these somewhat ungrateful actions I get more often. Basically time and time again I've been the guy that gets peoples worries, their concerns, insecurities and confessions. I don't betray the trust and give straight forward real reason point to try and aid the situation presented to me. It usually leads to some type of improvement in matters but then as the clouds part and things seem better there's all of a sudden no time to maintain communications. It's very frustrating to get people's ills but not the thrills of life. It's really just about balancing vibes you know. Maybe I'm just off who knows. People seem to keep their good times real close to the chest but can't wait to unload the woes of life on others.
Maybe I'll learn one day.....*looks at Guardian tattoo*.......Maybe.....
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I don't think you're "off". I think that's just the way most people are. We kind of type casted ourselves by always being available to help. Our folks taught us to be caring, but little did they know the times would change.
I've had to change a little bit. I'm not about to put up with anyone's emotional abuse, because at times that's what it is. Taking and taking and never giving back a moment to ask how I am. I feel you. I just tell myself, "If they aren't worrying about me, why am I worrying about them?"
Excuse the rant, this spoke to me. Lol.
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