This fuels me. It leads me to the decisions I make. Who I elect to interact with and why. I've stated before the I'm a people watcher. I'm a sponge in terms if taking in whatever it is people around put out. I internalize and break down then move in relation to what's being put out. This is done to all who cross my path but I must be honest and say that more often then not this relates to females. Point blank I watch females. The things y'all say, the things y'all DON'T say, how you say it, the vocab you use. Do you speak in a positive or pessimistic tone? Are you some one that solves problems or do you rotate excuses as to why you cant do something. Are your goals mapped out or do you play it all by ear. Are you family orientated or a person of solitude. This is equal in why I read the blogs I do. I'm curious about what y'all think, what y'all know.....what y'all THINK YOU KNOW. The mean spirited nitpicking and positive bond of sisterhood. I watch it all. It all matters .It all means something. Its a cause and effect. Observation...then Conversation. The Conversation is next.
Monday, November 16, 2009
Observation Station.....
Posted by NightFall914 at 10:44 AM
Labels: Communication, expression, How I Am, THOUGHTS
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i'm feeling this entry on SO many levels. i was going to write something to this effect after my morning class today but ehh we'll see about that later.
firstly, I HATE PPL WATCHERS lol. idk what it is but something irks me about them. it sounds crazy but i hate being looked at [like i said, CRAZY]. nothing boils my blood more than walking into a classroom and everyone's head turning! or eating in a restaurant and some random ass person staring at me. grr! but that's mainly because i'm that person that values solitude. but to keep this short: while being observational may give you some insight, i wouldn't base too much off of it. people are too multi-faceted. if you followed me around for a week you wouldn't know WHAT to think lmfao.
I watch people for real. Its crazy because when they finally try to know me I already know so much about them. I pretend like its all new when they tell me shit tho.
Lol, well let me say I'm not sitting in a watchtower with binoculars scanning my city. Don't want folk thinking I'm crazy guy. I mean its more that I pay close attention to people. I do so while going about my day so it's not like I'm in a corner eye ballin' folk. I feel that in conjunction with spoken words a lot can be learned through the body's other expressions. People have habits and patterns that do say things. And as complex as females are their not some grand Egyptian mystery. People pattern are common in both sex so it's just something I pay attention as I more around.
Hell I don't even make much eye contact with people so most folk don't even think I'm paying attention.lol
Stop e-stalking me!!! jk
Ppl watching is cool, but it can be detrimental and a burden to ppl watch ppl who are not making moves...a lesson I've had to learn for myself. They prove to be more draining..I dont want to have to make my new bedtime 9pm now
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