Saturday, February 6, 2010

Fu%& Yo Status!!!!


I touched on online "status" before and I as it would so happen I had a lil convo a few days ago that focused on the other type of status. I'm speaking of relationship status (single, involved, engaged, etc). My feelings on that are summed up in the title of this post........exactly.Not long ago I remember thise status labels being very much true to form. Those with significant others were labeled as dating or involved. The journey men were single and should you see the rare engaged or married label then you knew what it was. Today it's not so cut and dry. I see status many times as being a smoke screen for folks true intentions. It may just be another indicator of the jumbled times we live in but more often then not there's alway more below the surface.

Does his "dating" = Single but willing to take you out so you dont feel like a jumpoff?

Does her "Single" = Willing to chill with whoever she likes but she still has "dick on call"?

Does his "Involved" = A magnet for girlfriend #2's that dont mind the side chick position.

Does her "Married" = Single with serious "Baby Daddy" Drama?

Maybe her "Married" = A hope of keeping would be men away from her?

The online world is no less complicated then the real one so in the end I think what I usually think unless I know you personally.

....your sleeping with someone.

4 comments:

SinfulLyo said...

lmfao. i'm currently "complicated" with my gay would-be husband [if he liked women]. i seriously considered being "widowed" as a subtle warning to potential suitors ;] lol

nikkiblanco said...

i think everybody is sleeping with someone... and if they're not, they were a week ago and just changed their mind today and in two weeks they'll be again... so when they say they aren't it's really "i'm not sleeping with anyone right now (this very minute) but in a few hours/days, i could be"

truth

of course, that's unless we're talking about me :) i'm not sleeping with anyone... (blank stare) (slight grin)

Max Reddick said...

Yeah, there is more than a little bit of truth to this post. Some of the people on FB and Twitter and the other social sites have agendas that are a bit hard to decipher sometimes. I have had "married" women leave nice little suggestive notes in my box. So the status is just a BS way keeping you guessing.

NightFall914 said...

@Sin
Lmao.Thats not complicated at all. :P

@Nikki
Yeah I like that description of things.
p.s Glad to see you dropped by. ;)

@Max
Exactly.

 
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