Hype vs Reality pt 2

I guess you can call this the continuation thought from this previous post. You see in many of my "hype" situations there is a element of overcoming the past when it involves people that I've known or situations that I've been in before. So part of the hype is that ok THIS time what would have happened and should have occurred previously will now happen. Truthfully, I rarely does. But I think the difference with that now is that I don't really have the time or interest to put into people who have repeated the same infractions repeatedly. In regards to myself I have to change the way I approach things, perhaps with a more proactive course of action.

I can use the previous Labor Day Holiday as an example. It was a time I was hyped up for on a few levels. Socializing with people and friends including seeing people I missed and those that were only digital thus far. Given the type of holiday environment in NY, especially in BK I knew and saw the signs that I may not see my peoples much. It's the combo of the setting and the people involved. Buuuuut, to my surprise in the midst of the BBQ's and parties someone came thru and earned mega points. Goddess Intellect, made it her business to keep in touch and facilitate a late night drink and food session with myself and her peoples. She easily could have stayed doing what she was doing but put that foot forward to make things happen and I respect the hell outta hear for that.

So yeah the Reality was not what I expected but not what I originally hoped for. No biggie. It's happened enough times before and I think it may be a final reminder, along with everything else I'm dealing with that change is needed. No love lost....just making adjustments.