It Happens In An Instant

In the blink of an eye things change. A trigger is hit. A switch is flipped and your perspective changes.......

Let's Do This.......

Get It In At The Mall!

Via Doll Face

Shottas Style! Now has this ever happened to any of y'all retail workers before?

I can only express my life one way.

"If i said it i meant it bite my tongue for no one....." 

- Biggie Smalls

Aftermath....

Many times be it through writing, blog or vlog I just need to get stuff out of my system in a manner that lets me see it to come to a point of calm with things. I think in the midst of trying to understand why things happen a certain way or way people act a particular way, I miss out on an easier and more fulfilling activity. And that's enjoying and appreciating the people who consistently bring that positivity to my life. Not the "here today gone till they need me" type but that "here today to stay" type.

It's Saturday. Enjoy it.

As basic as "the birds and the bees".............

This pissed me off and I had to bite my tongue as to not say what I really was thinking. You see my homegurl who I reference here. Was updating me on his situation (another reason I was relived to get away from NY for a lil bit). Anyway she was about wanting to get tested because of the realization that her former partner was cheating on her. Sure that's smart but I had to ask a few questions in regards to the "accident" she said she had.

Me: "Um when did you realize an accident happened?"

Her: "That night."

Me: "Soooooo why didn't you guys go get morning after to at least void the preg. issue?"

Her: "It was Saturday night...and the next day was Sunday."

Me: "................."

Her: "What?"

Me: "Morning after is available over the counter, its available at university health centers, planned parenthood and many pharmacies."

Her: "Well look at you all on point"

Me: (with a blank face)"It's not by accident I'm not a father."

Now I dont post this is to have my friend viewed in a negative light. But on the real side, failing to plan is planning to fail. You shouldn't be doing a damn thing if you don't have teh knowledge of how to handle any of the possible outcomes of your actions. That's just basic.....and she's older then me and a mom aleady.

That's why I rarely buy all that "it just happened....it was an accident stuff"

Get ya shit together

Blackberry decides to "give back" to the Ladies

I'm already a BB loyalist but this new App is made especially for the ladies and its free.Since I've seem comments about some of the Hump Day "content" this is exclusive for the females. In short your Blackberry can play the role of part time vibrator. Shouts to the Texthibitionist for pointing this out. You ladies go help yourselves. Download and Directions after the Jump;)

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