"You know the dynamic your kinship with a person is going to take on w/n the first 10 minutes of interaction. Friendship, relationship, f/b, possible hubby, wife, etc..."
My super silly sexi singing sista friend Jae has sparked a thought on this cold ass NY night. The Time may vary cuz I've heard 1 min, 5 mins, 1 conversation, etc,etc...
So my question is, Just how much can you tell about a person in your initial encounter? No female I've come to care for deeply made that impression on me initially. I mean beyond basic generic interest and/or physical attraction levels can u really be that sure of initial impression to be able to know if they could become something serious?
Friday, January 16, 2009
10 mins. on the ClocC, Do you love me or not????
Posted by NightFall914 at 10:40 PM
Labels: FEELINGS, Love, Relationships, THOUGHTS
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well you know my time frame-- I know, generally, w/n 10 minutes (or our first conversation), HOW or IF I'm interested in corresponding w/ you again, what role you will play in my life,and if you're someone i want to align myself with.
Has that perception changed on some occassions? Definately. But never dramatically. I've never fallen head over heels for someone who I initially hated. Nor have I hated someone who I initially adored.
There's something in the spark of that initial conversation/correspondence/encounter that triggers the brain and the reactions it will have to the other person (butterflies/nausea). At least there is for me. I guesss that goes along with the " gut " feeling thing...
If I can't stand you w/n the first 10 minutes... generally, that's the place you'll take..
(This is barring any time that it takes to 'warm up' to a person.)
The only thing I can usually tell is if I want to continue speaking to the person or not. I can tell if they are fake or real. You know what they say, Real Recognize Real. And of course, male or female, we can't help but come to a conclusion after the first meeting whether we would sleep with that person or not. lol
Wow. I have never met a guy that I was like I like this cat during the first initial encounter. How ever long that may be. Not in 10 minutes for sure.
I can however, eliminate a guy in ten minutes or less if I do not like him. I don't know why it works like that but it does.
I think I am so disenchanted with the whole dating scene that I just won't allow myself to feel all warm and fuzzy during an initial meeting. My being just won't allow it.
I think that in your first interaction with someone women usually know if this is someone who is going to be around or just a "time-passer" or hell just PASS overall...
Future conversations are merely gauges on whether the first impression was right or not LOL...
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