In Case You Didn't Know

America is the worst place to look to for relationship advice. It's almost laughable the relationship model we put out there via mainstream media. Folks best bet is to find someone they know in their own life that is a product of a successful relationship and get the info from the source. All this I want find my Jay-Z, I need a Michelle Obama stuff is hilarious. Try to be the better, improved YOU first before likening your life to the most powerful folk on the planet. There's such a scary state of delusion at work these days.

So What Is Your Level Exactly????

I hear or read it a lot and it always makes me stop and think, especially in relation to who the comment is coming from. “Oh they aren’t even on my level anyway…” Isn’t that such a self righteous statement? A convo that I had recently with my homegurl resulted in her saying that and I swear I was glad to have my sunglasses on cuz I can only imagine the look I would gave her. What is your “level” exactly? Can anyone out there say they always deal with people that are on their level? And how do you define your level. Is it where you live, how much money you make??? It’s interesting to me because many times it’s those that have the less that project the grandest image….hood celeb status for real. But seriously, in my own observations I’ve seen very few people stick to any sort of level or standard socially. We like who we like and hope to be able to get around or change what we don’t.