Isn't That What It's Supposed To Be??

Nothing gets people talking about the beauty of relationships like Jay & Bey. Pix pop up of the power couple somewhere on the planet enjoying life and everyone will love it. They're so sweet. Love how Jay lights up around her, ect,etc....well I mean yeah they're married isn't that what it's supposed to be. Dont get me  it's great to appreciate love but sometimes I wonder if in the midst of appreciation does this speak to what many are missing? How many folk not only see a JayZ & Beyonce as a beautiful thing but also as the primary example of what a relationship should be? Many don't see this in their personal life so the go to substitute are the higher profile members of society. Similarly with the President Obama and the 1st Lady it's great to see but when folk ask me about my definition of love it's my parents way before I think of any other couples......we need to get those home grown role models back.

In Case You Didn't Know

America is the worst place to look to for relationship advice. It's almost laughable the relationship model we put out there via mainstream media. Folks best bet is to find someone they know in their own life that is a product of a successful relationship and get the info from the source. All this I want find my Jay-Z, I need a Michelle Obama stuff is hilarious. Try to be the better, improved YOU first before likening your life to the most powerful folk on the planet. There's such a scary state of delusion at work these days.

Taraji P. Henson, Whatever she's supporting I'm with It

Taraji P Henson has linked up with PETA for that anti fur campaign, “I’d rather go naked.” Sure why not. :)

Taraji P Henson X Complex Mag

Ms Henson links up with Complex for whats to be a hot set of images and speaks on that age old topic of us and them.

If a woman’s sleeping with this dude one night, another guy the next, no one’s taking her seriously. If you don’t give it up, he doesn’t have that power. We get men’s attention when we close our legs. For me, it’s not a game. I’m seeing what I can put up with. I’m not perfect, but I need to know if I’m going to like you on the days when I don’t want to like you.

No Need To Hold Ya Breath Any Longer......Their Back.

So it took billionaire “Stewie Rah Rah” to donate a 1/2 million dollars to achieve the goal of this poorly executed charity initiative. I'm glad money was raised for a good cause............that's it.

More Info @ Bitchie

Um In Case Your Curious.......They're Still Dead..................

Lady Gaga posted thispic via her twitter page to signify her digital death in on going the Keep A Child Alive “Buy Life” Campaign. It would seem the public isn't going for the campaign concept. Obviously I'm not surprised.

So far, a little over $183,000 has been raised which means, the participating celebs may be absent from twitter for quite a while. It has been deemed a disappointment because these celebs have millions of followers (Lady Gaga – 7 million, Kim Kardashian – 5 million, and so on), however, the campaign is moving at a slower pace than expected.

- Necole Bitchie.com

Digitally Dead?.....Brain Dead Perhaps for this Ego Driven Stunt.

 Today begins the campaign I mentioned previously and the more I see of it the worst the concept seems to me. Raising me for AIDS awareness is great but some needed to sit and think harder about the execution of this endeavor. The rich and famous give us a mock death or a digital death complete with imagery and video to make the position that they will not return to social networking sites until the desired sum of money is donated. Superb Cause....Stupid Concept. So basically we get a taste of things how they were pre Facebook and Twitter when a person every move wasn't "news" And to get these celebs back the A list celebs are banking on just how much the average person craves the insight into their personal lives, so much so that we'll pay for it? Superb Cause....Stupid Concept. It'd be interesting if folk didn't donate the money just to see if these stars did truthfully stay silent.


Hit the Jump for the video and full Imagery behind this campaign.

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Celebs Plan to "Sign Off" for Charity.....so you pay to get them Back.

Even though the end cause is positive, there is an ugly undertone here. Basically these celebs are saying "We know that following us is SO important to you so we're going to make you pay to get us back online" 

Check out the details here and tell me what you think.

More Info here including Kim Kardashians "Dead" Promo Image. I'm sao not feeling this.

Halloween Fav.

There were many costume's out there. I found 2 I liked the most. One is from the homie Rathy as a fairy. It was sexy and not slutty, plus it's my favorite color. And my top favorite went to Ashanti cuz every time I look at it I imagine Bright Eyes in it....**flashbacks....recollects myself** The ability to relate things to my real life makes this a winner for me. Kim Kardashian was a cat as well but I guess the insanity of her curves just wasn't moving me this year. Real life applicability is so major.

P.S I saw you Evita. Don't think I ain't notice. ;)

Kanye Shares the Reasoning behind his Time Off.

I find it interesting how quickly the race angle gets thrown at minority celebs similar to Lebron's post "decision" tweets, as if that's the only thing an everyday lowlife could hurt a person with.

Here we go Again.......

Yeah it's too hot for me to get worked up and I have no interest in throwing on my robe to past judgment on T & T. Hope it ain't whats being reported but if so......life goes on.

My Formspring reply to my "Forgiving" nature.....

Nightfall speaks on "Hoe S&*t" from Nightfall 914 on Vimeo.

RIP Gary Coleman

After yrs of laughter provided he had a real rough life much due to the shadowy moves of those that were supposed to be looking out for him. Well I hope the guy is in a better place.

Stacey Dash....Fun loving? Easy? Liberated?

Peep her interview on Jaime Foxx's radio show....

Paula Patton's drops thoughts on being Bi-Racial

Does the term “biracial” offend you? Paula Patton thinks it should. The Precious star — who is the daughter of a White teacher and an African-American — is creating a stir with some remarks on race she made during an interview in the March issue of Women’s Health Magazine.

“I find [the term biracial] offensive. It’s a way for people to separate themselves from African-Americans….a way of saying ‘I’m better than that,’” says Paula, who is expecting her first son with crooner hubby Robin Thicke this spring. “I’m black because that’s the way the world sees me. People aren’t calling Barack Obama biracial. Most people think there’s a black president….People judged me because I was light-skinned. [They'd assume] I didn’t want to be part of the black race,” she says.

Being in Hollywood I think shes sees more of career/financial effect of what blacks vs whites go through. Back on our level in though I think she is right in regards to some people. I know many mixed people who their credit NEVER had turned their backs on their blackness. In fact most are like Paula in that they consider themselves black women. Yes you should never forget all the aspects of your make up but it's true how the world does see you.

In the end I think how you are raised goes far to influence what you most identify with.

I wonder if this was Beyonce's reaction????

As a very vocal supporter of all things skullduggerous. It put a real smile on my sile to see this lil story in my email. I truly could care less about the fact that it's Hilary Duff, but to see that on top of the apparent joy that comes with engagement, Ms Duff wasted little to show just how appreciative she was. I'm sure the fact the ring was a cool Million didnt hurt either.


iSUPPORT!!!!!!!!

Shanda on Tiger's Apology

The only post I will make on this topic. So it goes to the lovely Shanda.


After the jump is Shanda's follow up video on cheating. Yes the topic is done to death BUT its usually spoken on by single folk. Hearing it from a married woman hold more weight to me.

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Ms. Symone

I'm still a fan of the nearly 1/2 billion dollar woman Raven Symone and as stated before I still think she's very attractive buuuuut I'm starting to wonder if her figure is more a product of her clothing then anything. It's not a stretch for me to see her and gravity NOT being on good terms when the clothes comes off.Just thinking out loud as I look at these Fashion week pix. I don't know. She's a damn shape changer.....sometimes she's hot sometimes she not.

Oh well...

Clean your mirrors and look in them.....

....cuz a lot of folk are looking REAL UGLY at there reactions to the BIG Chris Brown Interview. Priority Check in the center isle. I see people are real butt hurt talking about they expected a "better interview".....really? Just strikes me as funny.

So the Girls at Sues are Snithching now????

Just got word that folk from my old side hustle Sues Rendezvous at snitching on Amber Rose. I swear females get at each other like no one else. Here's the message I got...

REPORT: ONE OF AMBER ROSE'S SKRIPPER PALS CLAIMS THAT SHE HAD GOT ILLEGAL BUTT SHOTS FROM A HOOD DOCTOR!! (BEFORE AND AFTER PICS INSIDE) MediaTakeOut.com received the following report - from a former co-worker of Amber's at Suez Rendezvous - a popular strip club in the Bronx, NY:I know for a fact Amber Rose had butt shots and lipo. I work at Suez stripclub in Ny and when she first came here she was wayyy bigger, had no ass, and was shaped funny. She asked around and got in touch with the person that does the illegal butt shots for the girls here. She also does a lot of [SORRY WE CAN'T REPEAT THIS PART]. She used to be a sweetheart now she doesn't talk to anyone and acts like shes made it so big. She has never owned a car (still doesn't) and never had her own place. She still stays with her mom a small shack in the south Philly ghetto. We all miss the Amber that used to hang at the gay raves, bum cigarettes, rides home, and shop at the thift stores. A shame she can't even read or talk right. Shes a naive pushover and Kanye just uses her for arm candy because she is not smart at all.

With all the plastic surgery in Sues I'm made that ANYONE is dropping dime like that.Smh