Just On Faith

I dont know what is going on right now.

I dont know why certain things are happening the way they are.

I dont know why so many people are behaving how they are.

I dont know what is causing this shift in energy.

I dont know exactly what I should be doing right now.

All I can do is trust that what I feel and what I'm holding myself to is right.

The Leader of (Black) Twitter????

Hump Day Question

A simple question which I expect to have a mulch-leveled answer.

What is required to make a guy a man in your eyes?

Black Women in the Media

Continuing the Who Am I series with a oh so popular question of the media's portrayal of the lonely Black Woman.

Thanks to Evierobbie on the Video.

Previous Who Am I Post

What Do I Get From Blogging?

Video via Evierobbie

1st vlog entry of the "Who Am I" Series....

formspring.me

As part of a project I need ?'s from the public. Please ask ANY questions professional, personal, etc..... http://formspring.me/NIghtfall914

Question of the (Hump) Day

The exhibitionist activities of outside intimacy must now be put on hold as the cold weather months have arrived. So now that things are more confined what do y'all feel are some ideal in door ways to keep the heat going in spite of Winters chilly presence? Past experiences? Ideas for things you want to try?

21 Questions w/ Dj Premier

Ascended: The Omega Nexus Taking Questions

Have thoughts or questions? Ask us anything http://formspring.me/TrueOmegaNexus

Hump Day Question: Message vs Messenger

Many folk seem to agree with Montana's words......BUT can you really take full stock in a person with approx 5 kids from 3-4 different fathers at full face value regarding relationships. I don't know her so it's not a judgment but the facts interest me.

Blog Challenge Day 12

Oh Boy we're getting real now. This day poses a question to be answered. What would I do if I got someone pregnant. Well currently, on a few levels I'm NOT ready for a child so I won't lie, that news would screw me up completely. Assuming the mother decides to go through with it then I'd be right there and do what needs to be done.

Hump Day Question: The Big Turn Off

So many folk say their freaks and down for whatever.....but we've all had things occur that sent us in the other direction ASAP. Whats something that was done, said or discovered about a person you were with and killed any chance of a repeat encounter. I'm not talking about finding out he was cheating but something physical that was an instant turnoff.

Holy Hump Day: Question of the Day

Put yourselves in some new shoes and tell me what you would do if presented with the following situations.
 You must pick one of the following situations and please tell me in as much detail as possible which what makes one worst then the other.

A) You catch your man in bed with another woman. Not just another woman but one of your good friends

or

B) You find out your man has been cheating on you with another man.

Imagine That......

Thanks for the Formspring Activity!!!!

Even though all the questions I get are anonymous I do like the interactions. Much Appreciated.

My Formspring reply to my "Forgiving" nature.....

Nightfall speaks on "Hoe S&*t" from Nightfall 914 on Vimeo.

So is this the new Frontier????? (NSFW)

10 yrs ago Skull-Duggery was the taboo of lunchroom table talk....but times change and apparently the game is getting a out freakier.


Could You? Would you?

Reader Question: G.F vs B.F

"If you are in a very serious relationship what do you do if your girlfriend has an issue with your best female friend. What if as a part of continuing the relationship she requests that you no longer associate with your friend.What do you do?"

I can most definitely relate to this topic. It may be degrees of insecurity or simply claiming "her territory" but I think as people we all have at times felt a certain way about people how have different or potentially closer relationships to people we are close to then we do. A relationship touches on many levels, mental, physical, social, etc,etc...BUT one thing that can never be made up is time. Now let me explain.

I have female friends that I am very close with. Close in a way that I've been their for the triumphs and the tears. I hear the questions that others never will. Many of these friendship are based over a pretty respectable period of time. Throw a girl friend into the mix and this is what I get...a person who ideally wants to be my sun, moon and stars and want s no other person in the solar system with her. But that's nearly impossible with me.

A serious relationship will warrant changes in how I interact with my female friends and that is fine. For example, any of my lady friends that have partners I do not contact by phone or text after 10pm. It's just a respect thing and I don't want to interrupt anything. Similarly a partner of mine would have to understand that our growing interaction does not now neutralize 8,9,10 years of friendship and earned trust that my friend has. And truthfully any friend of mine would have no problem adjusting me and my relationship.

I know many a female that evaporates into thee air once a man comes into the picture. While I understand the need to get to know a new person, I have always maintained that my friends have earned too much of my respect to be cast aside when a new face enters the picture. That's just me. The maturity level of the people I interact with should allow for such an issue to be handled pretty easily.

Hypothetically, if such an ultimatum was made to me I may very well end the relationship or at least put a serious pause on things. The Issue would have to be dealt with and examined from a number of areas. Why is this an issue? Why is your suggest solution the most extreme of options?

I don't react well to people forcing control over me in that manner......

I'm Torn....

...based on something said by a friend last week.

"Its too hot for sex."

Really? I didn't think that was possible?

Question of the day: What is it about us?

This is a bit of a continuation from the extreme reactions post. Basically I know the vast majority of the women I know exclusively or at least primarily dealing with black men. I want to in as much detail as your willing to give, what is it about us that is appealing and makes us stands out from the crowd. Guys this applies to y'all too especially with everyone saying how much we don't like black women so what is it about the black woman to does it for you. I'm talking physically, mentally, socially etc....

Did I Do That?

Simple Hump Day Question.

Did you ever do something or allow something to be done to you that in the morning you don't back on and was shock, amazing or surprised at????

Hmmmmmm????????