Definitely A Belief That I Live By

I'd much rather you elect to walk away and know it was 100% your decision then to beg and have you stay thinking that your doing me a favor. 

Overcoming the Struggle Or Wanting Someone to Come over???

I've seen this in a few situations over the years with a few folks and it's always been a curious thing for me. Now I know this is a matter of how each person deals with things but feel me for a moment. If I were struggling, bills barely paid, living situation unstable, no matter how much I may want it I would not want to deal or socialize to seriously with a person of the opposite sex. This is simply because I always want to present the best of myself and if I'm not handling my basic life responsibilities then certain other activities are not on my agenda. On the flip side I've seen many a person get into serious "relationships" at times when they really don't have much to bring to the table.

So I wonder and ask y'all. Looking at things from both sides of the spectrum. If you were really in a bad space would you want to or seek social interactions? If you were more stable would you entertain a person with very little to offer in the grand scheme of things.

Got My Reading Glasses On….

So this past Saturday I met up with a friend to cool out and just get my mind right. As she chatted on her recent issues I couldn’t help but realize that again I was right. All my people know I observe my surroundings. This is offline and online. I watch before I speak. I see people’s patterns, behavioral styles; it’s just how I am. So in listening to my friend tell her story it was actually like hearing it for a second time. I had to interrupt to ask a question and satisfy my own curiosity. “Ay, is this story about you and what’s his face from the party??” Stunned look, pause, she laughs……”Yeah it is but it wasn’t that serious at that point. How’d You?”  “It was pretty apparent, at least to me it was.” In truth, I personally care little for people business in that way but I like knowing my perceptive abilities are still on par. I need to be able to know what’s going on around me at all times. This is especially important regarding how men and women interact because the source of so many issues and ugly situations ends up being somehow related to that. And with me having a good number of close female friends the Guardian in me is just naturally on the look out. 

Honestly it’s very hard to conceal chemistry, or the spark or whatever you wanna call it. As guys I it’s more nature and harder to read or maybe you have to be a woman to notice it. But in observing a woman, and how one acts around certain people you can see the difference. It’s all over her face, her eyes, and the slight physical interactions that only happen between them. I see the invisible writing and I read it well.       

Doing It to prove a point?

Sex as a weapon. Have you ever known someone who you weren't really into that much but cuz they talked so big and so much that you wanted to put it on them one way or another to shut them up and let it be known that the power is really yours? That authority sex so that from that point after all you would need to do is look at the person and it's understood who's really in charge? Yes, no????

Safety Zone

I've always felt that and understood from the beginning people are meant to be social.But I very much appreciate the comfort of solitude. Nothing but an area filled with you alone. It great decreases you ability to cause pain and trouble....intentionally or by circumstance.

Question: Need Input

I'm considering doing a Video Q & A session. Maybe every other week.Just answering questions and comments and stuff. More often then that if the comments/responses warranted it. What do ya'll think?? Good idea or not??