Where there are church bells.......

It's wedding season and coming off this past weekend of celeb vow making and the weekend prior witnessing the marriage of one of my cousins perhaps I'm a lil sensitive this this topic. Sensitive in that, very few moments in life have the meaning of power of a wedding. What woman doesn't forward to that big day. The reality of this world is that many a female inches toward it but never gets there. But when someone does finally get there the last thing needed is the day after critics and boo birds that always have something negative to say about things.


Right now let's look at the T.I & Tiny marriage to illustrate my point. A long term relationship that includes money, kids and unfortunately jail time(on more then 1 occasion). This is very similar to quite a few circumstance of people we all know and very ever get married. Denying the odds Mr & Mrs Harris made it official. Wedding and then an industry bash on South Beach. Tiny came prepare with 2 dress for the events.

As the internets murmured about the wedding you know what I kept reading from females on the matter, in conjunction with the usual A.Keys bashing? How could Tiny have her titties all out, she's classless, what a hoe, Chelsea's wedding with how its supposed to be done, blah, blah, yack, yack, bitter ass talking........


I'ma be honest I don't really rant vs. females but this just rubbed me the rub way for a few reasons.

1. This is that's woman's day. With all the drama Ting has been thru, holding TIP down, raising kids, aiding her sick father yet she's a hoe? She's without class? Really?

2. She's an entertainer be real. She had her gown and then had a party dress are we really getting at a busty for having cleavage at her party in hot ass Miami???

3. Aren't y'all usually getting at females for not making him "Put a Ring on It" and when he does this is how you react?

4. You ain't helping your own chances with all that negative energy. Keep in mind that most females eventually want to be in that brides shoes so that means to point in need one of us men to want you and all that b.s coming out the mouth is a major turn off. The inability to show happiness in some form for others is not something a man what's around.