Sometimes I'm a Victim of My Own Communicational Skill

In truth I'm never frazzled by the Internets. I can navigate, promote and socialize with my usual multitasking ease. But recently as I find myself stepping back from the constant flow of "thinking out loud" I'm seeing that folk are so used to a certain type of communication that when you get quiet, when you fall back, folk think something is wrong.

It's never personal but everyone's opinion doesn't need to be heard. Unfortunately,  no time soon will this culture shut it up and not speak on things they truly have no knowledge. No time soon will the meek and humble be hailed over the rude, loud and ignorant. Tacky post Irene jokes and the ranging views on pregnant Beyonce had the Internets in it's usual over-the-top form. So with that knowledge I pick my interactions a lil bit more carefully.

Power Play...

It's not a foreign thing for me to hear a female say how they'd like to have what we men have for a lil bit of time....physically speaking. What's really funny is that I never hear a guy say he is curious about making that exchange. Sure I've heard the "If you woke up with with boobs" joke but I think it's very well accepted the power of the "Man Tool". In fact it is many times too much power the average man to wield properly.(In my head I hear Kanye saying "No one man should have all thi sPOWER!") Even the worst of us can sit back and let women argue about, how independent she is, how platinum their "love box" is and how bad they are knowing that all the while in spite of so many of our male negatives this woman is no more then a proper dicking down away from utter submissive. This isn't every man's thought process but even the nicest of us are aware of the effective nature of having to deliver "shut the hell up" sex.

It's an interesting game when I stop and think about it. The give and take of power. The release and acceptance of submissiveness.....Yes this is a lil random....blame all the damn snow...

Technical Foul for Twittering

So apparently the mass "thinking out loud" that is Twitter has pushed the NBA, much like the NFL to put a few limitations on the public expressions of their players and personnel.

Via ESPN (click for full story)

The NBA will this week introduce what it considers "minimal" guidelines for players, coaches and team officials when using Twitter and other social networking sites, according to sources with knowledge of the policy.

The primary restriction of the policy is expected to prevent various team representatives from tweeting during games, after the stir caused late last season when Detroit Pistons forward Charlie Villanueva, then with Milwaukee, tweeted from the Bucks' locker room during halftime.

One source described the forthcoming policy as "very minimal" and "less stringent" than the guidelines announced earlier this month by the NFL, which now regards players, coaches and football operations personnel -- or any third party representing them -- to be in violation of league rules if they use social media platforms such as Twitter and Facebook from 90 minutes before kickoff through the end of the standard post-game access period for media interviews.....

..Sometimes it's better and less expensive to just shut up.

Can he be thrown off a bridge please???

So apparently he actually had a different word in mind for Will.I.Am......

Via Necole Bithcie

But Perez tells me that, in the heat of the moment that night, he almost chose to use a different word. “I thought about calling him the n word,” he says over the phone a week after the incident, “but I thought the f word was even worse. I was so filled with hate at that moment because I was hated on so much, and I reacted in the worst way possible. Then I went on to make a bunch of other mistakes. I shouldn’t have made the video. I shouldn’t have released so many statements. But what’s come out of all of this is that I’ve learned so much about myself, and I’m in a much better place. I’m actually thankful that it happened. As cheesy as it may sound, I had almost a spiritual moment when I just let all of the anger and worry go and am now filled with peace, happiness, and wisdom.

“I’ve always known that a lot of gays didn’t like me,” Lavandeira says in comments after the Black Eyed Peas fracas, “but after this it felt like no gays liked me. It was one of the worst weeks of my life.”

It is a feeling he should adjust himself to, but now add “the black community” to the list of folks who find no friend in Perez Hilton the brand or the person. For someone who (in addition to coke scrawls and penis drawings) writes so many of them, Lavandeira has no concept of how words work.

Trying to let positive energy reign today but this guy continues to push it.

BET AWARDS: How Full is the Cup

With less then 72hrs to completely flip their plans. The unrealistic optimist would expect the perfect MJ Tribute show. The Pessimist would expect more buffoonery and coonery. The realistic expectation was somewhere in the maybe. And that's what it was. Neyo did a great job capturing a fraction of M.J spirit while Tpain, Lil Wayne and Co. And the Un needed Baby Boy re enactment did remind us that this is still BET. But I can live with that.

BET was the guinea pig for award shows. With all the MJ tributes lined up, the the 1st one up fell upon one of the more polarizing networks yet what other station really had more genuine love for M.J then BET? All the other tributes will correct what BET didn't execute as well. Hindsight is 20/20 you know. But we got a chance to show love for one of our own.

Yes, we all have had Mike jokes, myself included ,but when its "game time" how do you present yourself? Are you the wise ass, slicc talker twitterer or do you bring some substance to the table in your words? I say that for anyone that can't take a degree of positivity in the fact that youngest sister Janet shared her thanks and grieved openly with us, then you do better. Don't talk about it be about it. Take the tools you have before you that you use to promote your sexual conquests, boast ya ego, push ya new "hot" mixtape, pretend to be the urban paris hilton or whatever nonsense you clutter the internets with and do something better.

As for me I give a degree of respect to BET. While admitting to some flaws, in a case of giving like this, its many times the thought that counts. I like to think of this cup as 1/2 full.

Tears at this point?I know I had them.......