So one of my more blunt friends asks me about Christmas. What'd I do, what'd I get and what I got folks. I guess simply common sense brought the conclusion that I gave more then I got.Well that's pretty much the norm but I was asked the question "Doesn't it bother you to not get anything from people you gave to?" After a deep inhale and exhale I had to break it down....
If I gave based on what I received it would never be a real balance.Some folk aren't in the position to give as they may want, some may not express themselves in the manner that I do and honestly some may not think material gifts are warranted towards me.This reminds me of when my mom would question me on things and say "Don't these girls have boyfriends? Shouldn't they be doing these things?" And perhaps she is right to degree but I'm me and this is what I do. All I ever really expect is a legitimate "Thank you and Merry Christmas" If I get an actual gift or a card then its a pleasant surprise.
I sum it up like this and this is an extreme example but it makes the point perfectly.
Jesus loved without limit regardless of if that expression was returned in like manner. Imagine is Jesus said...."Damn.I love and love these humans and I dont even get a hug in return?Screw this I'm going home."
You give to make the recipient's day/life a lil brighter.Once that's done then the mission is accomplished.
Sunday, December 28, 2008
Its a question of giving.......
Posted by NightFall914 at 4:44 PM 3 comments
Labels: Clarification, Spirit of the Season, THOUGHTS
Thursday, December 25, 2008
Wednesday, December 24, 2008
Dec 24th......
Twas' the day before Christmas and all thru New Ro,
Issues started arising so away I will go,
One friend's depressed with a mother so ill,
And a son out of surgery its all testing her will,
I'ma play Santa today dropping off gifts,
Holding her down so I'll give her a lift,
To the hospital quicc and continue my day,
Looking for Macbooks and hoping to save,
Then bounce to the Bronx to meet up on the blocC,
Exchange a few smiles hope they got what they want,
Goodfellas all day lets tip a bottle of Hen,
Bullshit aside let celebration begin,
Dessert Flower makes me proud as she continues her growth,
Moonchylde is a blessing I'm so thankful for both,
There's love in the "A", T-Dot and the isles.
I've always done it for y'all to see my folk smile,
So everyone be safe and have fun into the night,
I'ma toast to you all then proceed to get nice. ;)
Posted by NightFall914 at 10:58 AM 2 comments
Labels: Family, Friends, Holidays, Spirit of the Season, Wordplay
Sunday, December 21, 2008
Nice day out.....
Spent a nice but chilly winter New York day shopping, eating and enjoying great company. It gets no better then that.
Posted by NightFall914 at 12:13 AM 3 comments
Labels: Feels good, Holidays, Spirit of the Season, Things I Like
Friday, December 19, 2008
Winter in NewRoc
Posted by NightFall914 at 8:43 PM 1 comments
Labels: Celly Pix, New Ro, Spirit of the Season, Winter
Birds of a Feather....
This mos def sounds like something I'd do.It's good to know there may still be some giving souls out there.
Posted by NightFall914 at 6:00 PM 0 comments
Labels: blogging, Giving, Guardian, Spirit of the Season, Things I Like
Thursday, December 18, 2008
Giving feels good.........
..as people get their various gifts from me, I'm loving the reactions.
This is really what the season is all about.
Posted by NightFall914 at 11:34 AM 2 comments
Labels: Feels good, Holidays, Spirit of the Season













