Wednesday, November 9, 2011
Hump Day Reality
No tasty images, no suggestive words. I had plenty lined up but this came thru my thought patterns and needed to be let out. I told my boy as I left the gym last evening that I'm learning that no matter what type of woman you are dealing with, the key to peace is knowing when to let her thinking she is charge or right. This isn't an insult or derogatory statement as I affiliate with literally an clan of powerful respectful woman. But in the constant back and forth of life I observe, I observe the subtle things that reinforce (at least in the states) how much of a mans world it is. The double standards and social guidelines are well known. But on top of that I watch the actual interactions of people. The difference in alcohol effect on a man vs a woman and how he may take that do his advantage. The natural female nature to want protection. The truth is that we as men are given the position to be evaluated as to if a woman can feel safe and trust us.
Let's be honest. If I want to physically do something, who could really stop me? I hear the term Alpha Male used a lot recently. Maybe it to those particular men that this applies. I see many a simp get played out by a stronger more aggressive but the buck stops hee with that.
Y'all tell me. The power, support, protection of a man. How much does it matter?
Posted by NightFall914 at 9:33 AM 0 comments
Labels: alpha, life lessons, love hurts, men vs women, Relationships, simpin' aint easy
Tuesday, February 23, 2010
Another Tale of Simpin' at it's finest.

Came across this online....
My boy's girl asked him if her ex can stay w/ them til he gets on his feet
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Ol' boy just got out of jail and has no place to stay.
Him and my boy's girl been keepin' in contact. My boy knew of this and had no problem w/ it. They write each other and he calls collect to chat w/ her.
My niqqua agreed to let him sleep in the guest room for however long it takes for him to get back on his feet.
He was in jail for drugs(got caught on I-70 outside st. louis w/ 5 bricks in the trunk).
There ain't no way in hell I'd let that sh1t go down. Matter fact, she wouldn't have been writin' OR talkin' to that niqqua.
This is gonna end so bad.
They live in a $400,000 crib that's in HER name. I already see where this is goin'. My boy's gonna have to find another place to stay because his days are numbered there. Her and that jailbird niqqua didn't end on bad terms. He agreed that she could see other niqquaz and didn't have to wait on him. My niqqua was basically just a replacement til dude came home.
I wish one of my boys WOULD play themselves like this.
After the jump I included a pic of the female in question.
Posted by NightFall914 at 3:00 PM 5 comments
Labels: c'mon son, Lame, Man Up, pussy power, Really, simpin' aint easy, SMH
Tuesday, January 26, 2010
Story Time.....

I ripped this from one of my online "resources sites"....I.E a spot to get everything from free porn to movies and comics. Read this and please chime in.
Ok. I've been dating this chick for a month now, and she's as bad as can be. She cooks, cleans (without being asked to), is on the same mental and gets me in every way possible, is an accounting major Yes, the sex is off the chain too, but I digress.
Now, before me she was in a 6 year relationship with her baby's father (she's 21, the baby is 2) but like a lot of good women, she took up with a douche bag loser and thought she could change his permanent short life spanned loser ass. To make matters more interesting, he's a Laotian chink, which kind of makes sense seeing how on that side of the world they're good for... Rice.
*THE POINT, FOR YOU NON READING DRAMA QUEEN MUTHAFUCKAS*
Anyway... When I first met the loser, I gave him the look and the power handshake so he'd know he wasn't dealing with no bitch. But yesterday when we were moving out the last of her stuff from the attic and were almost done, this idiot started telling his son to say curse words. Then he tried to get the kid to say "mommy's a bitch" in Laotian. His dumb ass is either really stupid, or he forgot that my girl speaks the language. So she went off, which is what he was trying to get her to do anyway because he's mad she left his ass and is with me. So the ignoramus turns to me and is like "man, see how she tripping? This is what you're in for, bro." So I tell him "Man it ain't cool for you to be teaching your son to curse, especially to call his mother a bitch." That's when he says to me "you trying to give me parenting tips in my own house bro? Man you don't know me bro, I'll get my strap." I was like what? and started laughing, so he like "you laughing at me in my own house, nigga?" That set me off, because nobody calls me a nigga, especially no chink who's more NIGGER than most ignorant people.
So I said "ok' in a "I got you" voice, went and took the last box to my car and grabbed my steel bat (he was washing dishes the whole time, never moved from the kitchen) and was about to go wail on his ass, but my common sense prevailed and told me
A: There's a baby in the house, by his feet actually.
B: It's just words, you have a good life, don't throw it away on *a loser who is about to be stripped of EVERYTHING he holds dear.
C: You know where he lives and works, catch him on neutral ground.
So I put it back and told her to come on. The more I thought about it though on the way home, the more I had to laugh. because she talked like he was some badass, but for a guy who stands 5 inches taller than me and outweighs me by about 30 pounds... He had to say "before I get the strap?"
You that much of a bitch in your heart that you got to threaten to get a gun on a guy smaller than you?
Anyway, he's about to find out today just how much power I have over his life. Sunday I had her cut the power off, cut off date: today because it was in her name (they broke up 2 months ago).
Today she's filing change of address forms to show proof that she no longer lives there, because yesterday the landlord refused to take her name off the lease. if he gets evicted, she can sue the baby daddy for her half of the lease because she has documented proof that she no longer resided there.
Tomorrow she's filing for child support and her taxes so he can't get any of the money from his son (he threatened to take all the tax money the other day, but the dumbass doesn't even know his own sons or her SS#).
He can barely rent and car payments now, imagine what it's going to be like with child support payments.
Anyway, the nigger Laos doesn't scare me, and no she's not fucking him on the sly. If you've ever heard a chick talk about an ex they can't stand, then you'd know. If it wasn't for the baby, they'd have zero communication.
After the Jump get a sample of the "colorful" replies that other forum memebers dropped on this situation.
Posted by NightFall914 at 7:00 PM 4 comments
Labels: Damn, gunplay, Issues, LMAO, men vs women, simpin' aint easy

