Showing posts with label Man Up. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Man Up. Show all posts

Monday, June 10, 2013

What's In Store Now?????





I can honestly say last week was one of the craziest, mixed bags of emotion I've ever dealt with. Nothing was simple.Everything had layers and multiple applications stress. Personal issues, business issues, BIG business issues. There were highs, lows and a ton WTF was that moments that I'm sure will pop up again.
I never in one short time span witnessed so much BITCHASSNESS in my life. The way of the cyber world, the measure of a man, the manner in which folk conduct themselves, at least online is very sickening at times. he "madness" in Nomadness was in full effect last week, but with that said, the balance was reset again and tipped in our favor with the info that was shared with me before my short Florida get away.

I have reason to be upset....perhaps even angry because there's a lot going on on a lot of levels that I dont like. Instead, I'll stop breathe and hold on to the mind frame that has served me well all year. Everything is putting itself in position for major change and success. No negativity will change that course.....

Wednesday, January 25, 2012

So My Friend Has a Crush on A Hood Rat


Ok, ok the colorful title is a bit for effect cuz everyone involved is pretty cool for the most part. While coming home late last night I got a short BBM from one of my guys to hit him up today. He wanted my feedback on something. Long story short he's a good guy, no kids, no criminal record, educated, etc....but he's developed a thing for a girl he knows. She's attractive but seems pretty cool with her ghetto celeb type life. She's not a bad person from what I've seen.....she can be a bit loud and over the top from the one interaction I've had with her but it is what it is. Anyway, my boy tells me he finally stepped to her on some "I know we're cool...." type stuff and from he's words she didn't wanna take things to the next level. She didn't really reject as much as she hit him with the relax 'Friend Zone" response. This clearly didn't sit well with him so I asked me what do I think.

"Man, I'ma be real with you. In spite of everything you feel you're bringing to the table and its a lot, it doesn't matter if she doesn't have that attraction, that spark for you. The truth is you bring more to the equation than she does. Ideally you'd show her things she hasn't seen, open her view point up to things bigger then what she deals with presently. Unfortunately I've learned that no matter how much sense it makes in your head that she should want to rock with you, the reality is that she will more then likely stay within her element and deal with folk that dont compare to you at all. They'll be some bare surface superficial thing that has her feeling this guy or guys and it will make no sense to you. Be clear. As long as you have a crush on this female, yes I said crush, you're gonna be in funny state trying to figure out why others get the shot you want. It's classic and it happens to us all. I suggest you fill your space with another or other women...."

Curious if he'll listen. I expect he'll try to talk to this girl a few times before getting the hint.

Monday, May 23, 2011

Bull Gets Caught By NBA's New Campaign


It happened to Kobe a couple months ago and now Bulls Center Joakim Noah gets caught using the not so gay friendly F-word toward a fan while sitting the bench.The League is now this super nice guy stuff yet these players can curse and use the N word all day and its all good? Ok, see whats going on here. Again I'm not cosigning the usage of the word, I just wish it was more constant across the board.

Thursday, November 4, 2010

One Guy's a Bi*ch and another is kind of a Sni*ch




After hearing all of this I feel a few things.
  1. KG while having a great love for the game has been at the center of A LOT of bitch made moves and wannabe tough guy incidents so he is a lil suspect.
  2. Charlie has a right to be mad, but running and telling on KG via Twitter makes him look like a digital crybaby and tattle-tail.You that mad then settle it on the floor one way or the other.
  3. The media are so hypocritical because they use war terms, cancer comparisons and any number of over the statements to describe sports that many of them never played.
  4. EVERYBODY NEEDS TO MAN UP AND STOP BEING SO SENSITIVE!!!

Full story Text after the Jump.

The Boston Celtics pounded the Detroit Pistons on Tuesday, and Charlie Villanueva posted messages on his Twitter account that indicate Kevin Garnett may have made it personal.
One of the tweets says: "KG called me a cancer patient, I'm pissed because, u know how many people died from cancer, and he's tossing it like it's a joke."
Garnett is known for his trash-talking on the court. Villanueva suffers from alopecia universalis, a medical condition that results in hair loss. The Detroit forward does not have hair on his head.
The Pistons confirmed that Villanueva posted the tweets but had no further comment.
Garnett called the incident "a major miscommunication."

Before the Celtics' win over the Bucks on Wednesday he released a statement.

"My comment to Charlie Villanueva was in fact 'You are cancerous to your team and our league,'" Garnett said. "I would never be insensitive to the brave struggle that cancer patients endure. I have lost loved ones to this deadly disease and have a family member currently undergoing treatment. I would never say anything that distasteful. The game of life is far bigger than the game of basketball."
After the game Garnett said: "I'm a passionate player. If you don't like the way I am ... I play this way the last 15, 16 years. I leave it on the court."
 
Villanueva had posted multiple tweets saying that Garnett's alleged comments hit home.

"I wouldn't even trip about that, but a cancer patient, I know way 2 many people who passed away from it, and I have a special place 4 those," the tweet reads.

Monday, September 13, 2010

Still gotta' be a man!


I'm not sure where it happened but when did tucking your ya manhood between ya legs and lettin' women do ANYTHING they want become the "in" thing to do? Now I'm not talking about being a over dominant monster, but I'm seeing waaaaay too much blatant disrespect out there and it's just puzzling to me. Men gettin' screamed at by their women in public, couples out to dinner with the females spending more time on their smart phone then speaking to their dates. Hell, I've seen the FB posts and had to ask, "If your at a dinner why are you on the phone?" Just so many instances where I'm like why the hell aren't you checking this situation!?! You either remove ya self from the situation or you shut it down.

Through trial and error I've learned a lot and can honestly self NO ONE I know would try to openly disrespect me and if they did it would be a 1st and last occurrence. Most people know that I love and respect women but you know what, we all have our place. If I'm with you my attention is owed to you, put the damn phone down and return the respect. If we have an issue in public that isn't a life and death problem. Shut your mouth and keep tight till we're in private.

Some types of disrespect aren't as blatant but still need to be handled. For example, when I see repeatedly DRUNK females I do look to see if there is a man in her camp be it friends, a partner, etc.....cuz again someone needs to check this. Maybe it's just me but I'm not gonna to be out and let someone close to me get wasted on a regular basis. If it's a birthday maybe or some special celebration but getting tore down just cuz it's Thursday isn't flattering at all.

I don't know maybe this is a bit of a ramble/rant but it is what it is. I think I'm just feeling much more firm with letting folk know what they can and can't get away with.

Friday, September 10, 2010

16 Commandments of the Nana


This is an interesting piece. It's not as bad as I thought it would be and to be perfectly honest U agree 100% with number III.

III. You shall make your mission, not your woman, your priority

Forget all those romantic cliches of the leading man proclaiming his undying love for the woman who completes him. Despite whatever protestations to the contrary, women do not want to be “The One” or the center of a man’s existence. They in fact want to subordinate themselves to a worthy man’s life purpose, to help him achieve that purpose with their feminine support, and to follow the path he lays out. You must respect a woman’s integrity and not lie to her that she is “your everything”. She is not your everything, and if she is, she will soon not be anymore.



As I man I've said before that in convo that even the future mother of my children and wife will not be my everything. The majority and top priority yes but NOT my everything. Lines like that sound good but for me I have to be more honest in letting a person understand where they stand in my life.

Anyway, here's the first 5.Hit the jump for the full list.
The Sixteen Commandments Of Poon

by Roissy

I. Never say ‘I Love You’ first

Women want to feel like they have to overcome obstacles to win a man’s heart. They crave the challenge of capturing the interest of a man who has other women competing for his attention, and eventually prevailing over his grudging reluctance to award his committed exclusivity. The man who gives his emotional world away too easily robs women of the satisfaction of earning his love. Though you may be in love with her, don’t say it before she has said it. Show compassionate restraint for her need to struggle toward yin fulfillment. Inspire her to take the leap for you, and she’ll return the favor a thousandfold.

II. Make her jealous

Flirt with other women in front of her. Do not dissuade other women from flirting with you. Women will never admit this but jealousy excites them. The thought of you turning on another woman will arouse her sexually. No girl wants a man that no other woman wants. The partner who harnesses the gale storm of jealousy controls the direction of the relationship.

III. You shall make your mission, not your woman, your priority

Forget all those romantic cliches of the leading man proclaiming his undying love for the woman who completes him. Despite whatever protestations to the contrary, women do not want to be “The One” or the center of a man’s existence. They in fact want to subordinate themselves to a worthy man’s life purpose, to help him achieve that purpose with their feminine support, and to follow the path he lays out. You must respect a woman’s integrity and not lie to her that she is “your everything”. She is not your everything, and if she is, she will soon not be anymore.

IV. Don’t play by her rules

If you allow a woman to make the rules she will resent you with a seething contempt even a rapist cannot inspire. The strongest woman and the most strident feminist wants to be led by, and to submit to, a more powerful man. Polarity is the core of a healthy loving relationship. She does not want the prerogative to walk all over you with her capricious demands and mercurial moods. Her emotions are a hurricane, her soul a saboteur. Think of yourself as a bulwark against her tempest. When she grasps for a pillar to steady herself against the whipping winds or yearns for an authority figure to foil her worst instincts, it is you who has to be there… strong, solid, unshakeable and immovable.

V. Adhere to the golden ratio

Give your woman 2/3 of everything she gives you. For every three calls or texts, give her two back. Three declarations of love earn two in return. Three gifts; two nights out. Give her two displays of affection and stop until she has answered with three more. When she speaks, you reply with fewer words. When she emotes, you emote less. The idea behind the golden ratio is twofold — it establishes your greater value by making her chase you, and it demonstrates that you have the self-restraint to avoid getting swept up in her personal dramas. Refraining from reciprocating everything she does for you in equal measure instills in her the proper attitude of belief in your higher status. In her deepest loins it is what she truly wants.

Sunday, May 16, 2010

Cleveland.....Where ya balls at?!?!?!?!? and Really China?!?!?




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I thought the NY media was embarrassing with it's Lebron ass kissing pre free agency but this is without the most embarrassing thing ever!!!!!!!

After the Jump see just how far the LBJ worship goes.

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Another Tale of Simpin' at it's finest.



Came across this online....

My boy's girl asked him if her ex can stay w/ them til he gets on his feet
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Ol' boy just got out of jail and has no place to stay.

Him and my boy's girl been keepin' in contact. My boy knew of this and had no problem w/ it. They write each other and he calls collect to chat w/ her.

My niqqua agreed to let him sleep in the guest room for however long it takes for him to get back on his feet.

He was in jail for drugs(got caught on I-70 outside st. louis w/ 5 bricks in the trunk).

There ain't no way in hell I'd let that sh1t go down. Matter fact, she wouldn't have been writin' OR talkin' to that niqqua.

This is gonna end so bad.

They live in a $400,000 crib that's in HER name. I already see where this is goin'. My boy's gonna have to find another place to stay because his days are numbered there. Her and that jailbird niqqua didn't end on bad terms. He agreed that she could see other niqquaz and didn't have to wait on him. My niqqua was basically just a replacement til dude came home.



I wish one of my boys WOULD play themselves like this.

After the jump I included a pic of the female in question.

Friday, July 31, 2009

Green M&M's?????




I got home last night to the music blogs all dropping this "diss" track from Eminem vs. Mariah Carey and Nick Cannon . I listened to it and musically & lyrically it's a ill song BUT this falls in a funny category for me. I can't cosign a grown man going in on a female for denying they had a relationship. Especially as the female has moved on and gotten married.

The Hip Hop lover in me puts Em right on top as one of the best to ever do it. But as a man he loses points for this. Is that how we behave guys? I mean yes if some I had a relationship denied it ever happened there are basically 2 rationales. A)The person means a lot to me so I'd be hurt. B)They don't mean much so you brush it off. In the event that "A" is the way you feel do you then run around "airing out" your business? I can't help but think Em is to some degree envious of he's targets this time around.

Naw man no bueno.

Saturday, July 11, 2009

The Original Man Show






Sunday, July 5, 2009

Wyclef Man's Up


This an update to my previous post. My friend Mari, got her apology from Wyclef over their "beef" Truth always wins in the end.Here's Wyclef Twittered public apology.

 
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