Coward......

While we do live in a world where a lot of women have adapted this I can do ANYTHING a man does mentality, as a man you should know there is a right and wrong why to do things. This doesn't happen in my reality but if a woman was to become aggressive and physical assault me I'm not going to beat her like she's man. You know the rules. You restrain her....put that fear of God in her but you restrain her. There is a savage trend of violence in our world.

 At the very least I can say I'm thankful to deal with folk you don't conduct themselves in that manner.

“Are Black Men Good Men In A Storm?” Dr Vibe Show Podcast Now Up

Last Month's "Allies" Edition of The Dr. Vibe Show "Are Black Men Good Men In A Storm" It's now up and available to listen and download. If you have a few moments check it out. 

**Podcast Here**

Hump Day Breakfast Thoughts

Can you cook darlin, at the stove you're revolvin

Bake macaroni, turkey wings, a nigga starvin

Here take my number let me pull the chair from under

I had fun plus your backyard speak with thunder

Hump Day Question

A simple question which I expect to have a mulch-leveled answer.

What is required to make a guy a man in your eyes?

Final Hump Thoughts

.....Truth

So My Friend Has a Crush on A Hood Rat

Ok, ok the colorful title is a bit for effect cuz everyone involved is pretty cool for the most part. While coming home late last night I got a short BBM from one of my guys to hit him up today. He wanted my feedback on something. Long story short he's a good guy, no kids, no criminal record, educated, etc....but he's developed a thing for a girl he knows. She's attractive but seems pretty cool with her ghetto celeb type life. She's not a bad person from what I've seen.....she can be a bit loud and over the top from the one interaction I've had with her but it is what it is. Anyway, my boy tells me he finally stepped to her on some "I know we're cool...." type stuff and from he's words she didn't wanna take things to the next level. She didn't really reject as much as she hit him with the relax 'Friend Zone" response. This clearly didn't sit well with him so I asked me what do I think.

"Man, I'ma be real with you. In spite of everything you feel you're bringing to the table and its a lot, it doesn't matter if she doesn't have that attraction, that spark for you. The truth is you bring more to the equation than she does. Ideally you'd show her things she hasn't seen, open her view point up to things bigger then what she deals with presently. Unfortunately I've learned that no matter how much sense it makes in your head that she should want to rock with you, the reality is that she will more then likely stay within her element and deal with folk that dont compare to you at all. They'll be some bare surface superficial thing that has her feeling this guy or guys and it will make no sense to you. Be clear. As long as you have a crush on this female, yes I said crush, you're gonna be in funny state trying to figure out why others get the shot you want. It's classic and it happens to us all. I suggest you fill your space with another or other women...."

Curious if he'll listen. I expect he'll try to talk to this girl a few times before getting the hint.

To Scape or Not to Scape??????

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Meet The Most Interesting Man Alive

When I tell my editor about the conversation I've just had with Jonathan Goldsmith, Dos Equis pitchman and "The Most Interesting Man In The World"(TMIMITW), she shakes her head and says, "Unbelievable."
I've told her that during the course of the interview, Willy, Goldsmith's 110-pound Anatolian shepherd, caught a squirrel and placed it on the pile of wood his septuagenarian master chopped and stacked behind his home at the foot of a mountain in rural Vermont. This turn of events is not exactly unbelievable -- Goldsmith's love of dogs is as well-documented as canines' predilection for squirrels -- but it does strain credulity: Goldsmith's job is to embody a lived-in masculinity so hyperbolic that his off-screen persona should disappoint. His private manliness is shocking precisely because he is publicly a Madison Avenue creation.
Talking to Goldsmith is like receiving unsolicited advice on insurance from a passing duck.
Here are a few facts about the man behind TMIMITW, the well-traveled actor who plays the world's best-traveled pitchman: He has "weathered a few gales while sailing in the Caribbean;" he has gotten "a bit lost at sea;" he has "saved a hiker's life during a blizzard on Mount Whitney;" he enjoys "building stone walls in my spare time;" he has "supported the same charity for decades;" he wishes he'd "killed Muammar Ghadafi or Idi Amin maybe."

Read the Complete Interview here via the Huff