TeamWork!!!!!

Not mad at it..........

They Deserve Better

There are lots of topics I have opinions on. Many I'm flexible on in terms of seeing multiple view points and angles. Recently, I've had more then a few convos about kids. My eventual desire to be a father and just parenthood in general. Within those chats always comes up my stance of planning and preparing for a child. It's often replied to with "There's never a perfect time for a child." or "I cant plan for something like that." I majority of the time consider that a cop out. I liken it to high cost purchase like a car or home. You may be in the position to put down a solid down payment but if you're not in a position to pay the monthly fees you will lose it. If you're not responsible enough to properly care for the vehicle or home it will have problems.

I owe it to my future children to be able to provide better then what I've current experienced. To do otherwise is selfish in my eyes. Yes there are exceptions but that is not what I see in today's world. I see sloppy moves covered up by the "I'm an adult" angle.

I dont buy.....I doubt I ever will.

More Words From Shanda

 She hits the spots yet again....

Animal Planet

A view I personally like while giving her the control.

Shanda's Talking But Few Will Listen....

Don't get lost in the after glow.....

“Ask A Black Man” Episode 3: The SEX Episode [EXTENDED CUT]

A nice lil guy chat session.....

So You Say.....

I've been quoted as saying that the world or at least America seems over sexed. As I think about that, is it more so that I need to experience more so I understand the claims of these folk with supposedly super human libidos.....or are their stories of have sex "all day" more true then I give credit for. I'm a worker so the idea of sex all day, while clearly pleasurable,  makes me 1st ask well are you both unemployed? Then just how is that possible? Do you stop for food? Do you sprinkle naps in between all this? I don't know.......enlighten me.

Warm Embrace........

The dream of it, the pursuit it, the touch, feel and taste of it.......

Lets get into it when me and her get it in,
When we set the stage for that performance,
Passion and Lust is before us,
Sans restrictive clothing T-minus until she's moaning,
I part thick thighs like the Red Sea oh yes she's flowing,
It's a warm embrace so soothing, comforting and personal,
Personally speaking let me do this with more detail,
She's allowing me that control so my goal is to not fail,
The head holds the nerves the crown of sensation,
I dont thrust it in crazy I move slow building anticipation,
The head parts the lips, slowly starts to grip,
Slippery entrance to pure pleasure a sensationally perfect fit,
I think on it like playing an instrument of rare quality,
It's a thank you from my being for the times when she swallows me,
Both lips for that fact make the eyes roll back,
But that love down below gets the blood steady flowing,
To make the heat rise beyond the comfort zone,
Skin slipping with every stroke and moan,
You can get lost in it like a dream during day time,
Union of movements, with the extra curves in my spine,
I'm now fully deep, all the walls they are mine,
The side vein that holds my pulse and extra feeling tingles,
She requires a balancing act of strength and finesse,
The potent warm would bring down the best,
I'm only human so I pace the movements as the finish line nears sight,
The grip tightens up the soaking lower bite,
All around the length and width of what I offer,
Beads of sweat stream and glisten off her,
It's an sideways smile with a kiss when I pull out,
But as soon as I'm out I get sucked back in it,
To finish what we start the pounding of our hearts,
Two beats same pace pleasurable pain on her face,
It wants to drain me empty and bath in it fully,
I'll comply with the request till every last drop leaves me,

Then lay still inside aftershocks and tremors continuing,
Still feeling the heat as I return to soft and relaxed state,
Already longing for the next go 'round,

Hump Day Breakfast Thoughts

Can you cook darlin, at the stove you're revolvin

Bake macaroni, turkey wings, a nigga starvin

Here take my number let me pull the chair from under

I had fun plus your backyard speak with thunder

Monogamy and Infidelity

A collective and young adults get speak on a number of topics related to Monogamy, Infidelity and more.
Peep Part 2 after the Jump.....

Shout Out to Ms. Dash!!!!

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Multiple Baby Fathers.......Is It a Legit Stigma????

It's not all Ill Imagery today. Here's a question for the masses. Multiple women having his kids. A women with multiple fathers to her kids. The Stigma attached to this usually negative and highly judgmental i.e your a statistic. Thoughts on this? Is the stigma warranted? Is it merely circumstantial?

Baby Boy Speaks......And I'm Not Mad At Him

While going about my usual business I noticed a few folk online referencing Tyrese and that apparently he had made some online comments that had a few people less then happy. So, out of curiosity I decided to see what the big deal is. It turned out to be more relationship tweets and talk of separating from friends.

What I did find interesting was 1, his "understanding" of the thought process that leads to cheating...

And 2, his final question he poses. I know everyone gives themselves A+ grades sexually, at least. in the public. But I have to think this question has to strike a nerve with folk who know deep down their not giving their all. Cheating in never good but yes that in a mentally that makes it somewhat understandable.  

Late Night Question......

This came from a convo earlier today....

What's worse, being in a relationship and not being able to get more "physical intimacy" or being single and not getting any?

Apparently we been over doing it a bit???

Satisfactory sexual intercourse for couples lasts from 3 to 13 minutes, contrary to popular fantasy about the need for hours of sexual activity, according to a survey of U.S. and Canadian sex therapists.

Penn State Erie researchers Eric Corty and Jenay Guardiani conducted a survey of 50 full members of the Society for Sex Therapy and Research, which include psychologists, physicians, social workers, marriage/family therapists and nurses who have collectively seen thousands of patients over several decades.
Thirty-four, or 68 percent, of the group responded and rated a range of time amounts for sexual intercourse, from penetration of the vagina by the penis until ejaculation, that they considered adequate, desirable, too short and too long.

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Simply Stated....(NSFW)

....if you make her do THIS she will call you king. ;)

Pam Grier's "Fix" or Transportin' in her Chocha????

Folk that know me know I LOOOOOOVVVEEE some Pam Grier but this is an ill story.In her memoir out this week, actress Pam Grier says she and Richard Pryor broke up in part because his cocaine use had led to a dangerous buildup of the drug in her vagina. Is that even possible?

Here's how Grier recounts the conversation with her doctor:

He said, "Pam, I want to tell you about an epidemic that's prevalent in Beverly Hills right now. It's a buildup of cocaine residue around the cervix and in the vagina. You have it. Are you doing drugs?"

"No," I said, astonished.

"Well, it's really dangerous," he went on. "Is your partner putting cocaine on his penis to sustain his erection?"

"No," I said, "not that I know of. It's not like he has a pile of cocaine next to the bed and he dips his penis in it before we have sex." I had a nauseating flash of one of Richard's famous lines: Even my dick has a cocaine jones.

More after the Jump!

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Is this 1st Date thinking for Y'all?

I wonder how big his dick is and will I sleep with him?

The ladies at The Boobs dove into the topic of female thoughts on first dates and I'm just curious if it's on point.

Believe it or not, we really do think about this. I know within the first 15 minutes of looking at him, I'm already sizing him up. Trying to figure out what he's working with. Hes hot, I wonder if hes packing a 5 or a 6. Oooh a 7? Crossing my fingers for a 7.5. Every time I mention this to girlfriends, they just laugh and give me a high five because they already know what I'm talking about. Guys find this hysterical as if we aren't even supposed to be thinking about sex, let alone how thick his rod is. But we do, we also ponder if we are going to sleep with him. Whether its that night or the next night or next week, or even a few weeks from there, we can generally figure this out right away. To clap cheeks or not, now that is the question.

Yes?No?.....Thoughts?

Balance.....Focus......Control......AARRRGGHHH!!!

I'm trying but for some reason I'm an explosion of (sexual) energy and I have no good way to channel it. I'm just trying to keep busy today without gettin' my self worked up. Evita says it may be increase in working out that has me like this.Or it may be that I had an out of town guest this past week that always stirs things up.....I dont know....I'll do my best.

Man & Wife: Men & Cheating

I need this to combat the consistent "there ain't no good men left" rants that flood the social internets.

Some reactions make it all worth it. (NSFW)

With age and time, you come to get a vast amount of pleasure from the pleasure experienced by your partner. A reaction like this would make me feel great!!!!