Recent Question.......

So you like to cuddle? 

 Only with the right person....

Online Reality Check

Oh you want to publicly state things but not get outside public opinion or replies to it? No problem, get a blog and make it private......or better yet get a journal and keep it in your night stand.

Its called a SOCIAL Network for a reason. Folk just wanna talk and talk and rewrite the common sense rules of communication. You write your number on a wall you gonna get mad that someone calls it. It's really an attention seeking thing and I'm not playing that game.

No malice or anger but I break that nonsense down. If you can't stand by your words then don't make it public.

Funny Business Ramble

Folk really think the Internets are chopped up into lil manageable bits that let you go all out for attention in one respect but will shield you from off the wall attention. It doesn't work like that. If you deal in, market with and do business off the benefits of sex appeal you will ALWAYS get attention you do not like at some point. Is it right? Not at all but there has to a bit of common sense as to the make up the world we deal in.

If your marketing tool is T & A than no matter how you frame it, no matter what you try and do to weed out stupidity it will never fully work. Look for a strip club with a 100% success rate of patrons not getting too close to dancers. It doesn't exist. Similarly if your blessed with a certain full body type than I'm sorry but if you fault it for clicks and views you are going to deal with repeated questions you don't like. You can post a FAQ section that gives every measurement and inch that a person can ask and you will STILL get a person that refuses to read it.

The Internets are not always as smart as we'd wish them to be but folk have to be a lil bit more realistic with what they're doing. Be clear. This isn't about allowing disrespect but understanding fully the field that you're dealing in.

So You Say......

Everyone tries the act like they don't. Front if you want but I need to deal with real humans so my trust goes to those that can openly admit to caring.....

Just On Faith

I dont know what is going on right now.

I dont know why certain things are happening the way they are.

I dont know why so many people are behaving how they are.

I dont know what is causing this shift in energy.

I dont know exactly what I should be doing right now.

All I can do is trust that what I feel and what I'm holding myself to is right.

Being Human............

In Constant Need.........

TRUTH

“You may never have proof of your importance but you are more important than you think. There are always those who couldn’t do without you. The rub is that you don’t always know who.”

— Robert Fulghum 

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So What Was That About Women Drivers????

LOL. Tough Break.

In the Mind of Men

When you walk in the bar to see that person you miss and you give that hug and cheek kiss but what's really in your mind is this....

ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The Reason I Believe Marriage Still Works.....

The world or at least America is a different place then it was in 1979. That was the year my parents got married. Today all I hear about are the raising divorce rates, disgruntled single parents and the continuous mutations of what people view as "relationships". With all this happening it's understandable why folk seem so jaded towards the idea of marriage in its classic form. I'm blessed that I don't have that issue. No one has broken my heart to the point of abandoning love and most importantly I have the greatest example of love's success front  of me.

Today my parents celebrate 34 yrs of marriage!!

Happy Anniversary Mom & Dad!!!!

We're Just Saying....

Remember This...

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Don't Blink.....

Today I'm Learning About Selective Ignorance

Most information is time consuming, negative, irrelevant to your goals, and outside of your influence. I challenge you to look at whatever you read or watched today and tell me that it wasn't at least two of the four.

- From the 4 Hour Work Week

Learning to ignore things is one of the great paths to inner peace.

—ROBERT J. SAWYER, Calculating God

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 How many do you know....????

Don't Over Complicate Things

Do right, be about something and make her happy......Nuff Said

Simple but True

One Way I Deal...