Tough Break Tumblr......

I guess the youth of America will have to expose itself solely on IG now hmmmm?

FAIL!!!!!!!

Epic Fail

When THIS Happens understood she's gonna clown you to ALL her home girls.

Captions?????

NBA Lockout Fallout.......Players can't hang w/ Hov.

“So all the athletes were clamoring to talk to Jay-Z in his private section, even Melo, but because of the lockout, Jay had to turn them all down. He refused to let any of them thru, and also warned his security to watch out because of his NBA ownership, he wasn’t allowed to fraternize with them,”     - Via Terez Owens

...Tough break guys.

Full Story at The Hoop Doctors 

How I Spent My Day

While grinding at the day job this illness in my system had me trying to fill my trash can with used tissues. Got 1/2 way there. -__-

So We All Have Limits

 For quite a while now I have been down for whatever. This is our world so my exhibitionist side would have no issue doing the “do” outside in various locales. With the exception of the colder months, the outdoors are as much a play land as anywhere else in my opinion. Cool, warm, hot it doesn’t really matter. I’ve posted before that with the right partner sweat could be quite sexy and I mean that, but I had no clue that the triple digit heat wave of this past week would sit on the eastern U.S suffocating us with humid, inhuman levels of heat. Discomfort as I’ve never felt was the norm. And the thought came to me….If you could have your ultimate sexual encounter but it could only take place outdoors in this heat would you do it. I’m afraid to say that the glory of fantastic fellatio, riveting reverse cowgirl and Spectacular spider monkey just wouldn’t take place. The Heat would win and regulate me to the benches……

With Ruling against Ex Wife Steve Harvey Laughs Last.

A few weeks ago Steve Harvey's wife Mary Harvey took to the Internets with a series of claims and charges against her one time husband. These accusations went at Steve with both guns blazing and sparred no one including her and Steve's kids from public commentary. That was one thing, so as is usually the case (look back at Keri Hilson for example) the online court of opinion slammed Steve on all front especially as he was preparing to release a new book. All the pro women, man bashers were in their glory but it truly was all good just a week ago...

A Texas court has ruled in on the matter and has told Mary to fall all the way back. Steve's lawyer released the official statement and paperwork detailing just how things are going down.

In addition to Mary possibly facing charges for violating a gag order, yesterday the court decided on 7 crucial points in Mary’s accusations:

(1) Mary Harvey was not homeless or evicted from her home and was awarded 3 homes in the property settlement;

          (2) Steve Harvey did not take, withhold or turn the child against Mary;

(3) Mary Harvey willingly placed the child on an airplane and sent him to Mr.Harvey without his knowledge;

(4) Steve Harvey has primary custody of the 13-year-old child;

(5) Steve Harvey did not take Mary Harvey’s wealth. Mary recieved $40,000 per month from 2005 – 2009;

(6) Mary Harvey recieved $1.5 million from Steve in March 2009;

(7) The divorce was granted on irreconcilable differences and current wife was not apart of the original divorce proceeding, nor was she the cause of the marital break-up.

Read the full document HERE.

So she got near 2 million just 2 yrs ago and 40K a month and shes still mad??? Tough Break.

Late Night Question......

This came from a convo earlier today....

What's worse, being in a relationship and not being able to get more "physical intimacy" or being single and not getting any?

Tough Break Cavs....

Be thankful he didn't drop 50......

T.I.: “Prison Ain’t For Gangsters, Prison Is For Losers.”

On Monday November 29, BET will air their next installment to their <i>Food For Thought</i> series. And their 1st artist is none other then T.I, Clifford Harris. Check out an excerpt below.

“To be candid with you, I learned, man, prison ain’t for gangsters, prison is for losers,” he told Smith. “Gangsters find ways to avoid prison. Gansters find ways to exit the game and legitimize their businesses and learn how to turn their strengths into enterprises. If you look around in a prison, at least myself, I saw thieves, I saw burglars, I saw crackheads, I saw, you know, the same people that I would walk around on the street, and you would never associate with these people out of respect for yourself,” he continued. “Ok, so if you’re on the street and you’re looking at these people and you are above their standards, how do you and them end up in the same place, one bed next to each other? I got to be better than that.”

T.I.’s Food For Thought airs Monday November 29 at 10:30pm on BET

Blog Challenge Day 12

Oh Boy we're getting real now. This day poses a question to be answered. What would I do if I got someone pregnant. Well currently, on a few levels I'm NOT ready for a child so I won't lie, that news would screw me up completely. Assuming the mother decides to go through with it then I'd be right there and do what needs to be done.

Holy Hump Day: Question of the Day

Put yourselves in some new shoes and tell me what you would do if presented with the following situations.
 You must pick one of the following situations and please tell me in as much detail as possible which what makes one worst then the other.

A) You catch your man in bed with another woman. Not just another woman but one of your good friends

or

B) You find out your man has been cheating on you with another man.

Imagine That......

Let's Sum Up the Giants Vs Cowboys Game Tonight

 

...Damn Homie. 

He's Got More Self Center Then Me.......

It's Less About Him and More About You

So we get a new twist in a religious sex scandal.....it was one of us. A black guy. You know the end of the world is coming cuz things we never heard black folk doing are happening now. Anyway, a few people have asked my opinion on this so I' state my take on all this 1 time. If the allegations that are coming forward are true then "tuff break" for Pastor Long. It's an ugly, disgusting situation that will have far reaching effects especially in the minds of his church. But to be perfectly honest, when things like this happen I'm less concerned with the main figure of attention more so then I am interested in the actions or reactions of the viewing public. 

You see, if things are all true then Paster Long has already cast his lot and must deal with it, but what about you? No one is making us laugh at this, no one is making us turn this into an online joke. The way folk will flock to this situation as a way to bash religion is of more concern to me then the acts of this man. People will take this instance to cast religion as corrupt, fraudulent and perverse. Even if the FACTS scream to the opposite. The problem is that the functional churches go about their business affecting change, bringing up quality people and that gets no press no attention. If you take the churches that have had scandals multiply it by 10 you would still have a low end minority percentage of the churches in this nation. But a loud, ugly minority can many times overshadow a steady silent majority. Just look at the Tea Party.

I know my church experience is a "unique one" but then again so are these over the top evils of these selective churches as well. In the midst of all this is a silent middle class of functional faith followers that need to shine light on the truth that church isn't some standard cover up for immoral base activity.

I cut the pastor no slack but I am no judge. I'm shaking my head just as much at the long distance critics and keyboard attorneys as I do at the man accused of the crimes.

This is how you miss up the Imagery of a Song

The A.Keys/Swizz stuff didn't really affect my ability to like "I'm Ready" but this following tidbit that Nicki Minaj shares in her Vibe Interview really kills it for me.

"But you know what else he[Drake] told me he wrote for me? The Alicia Keys song “I’m Ready.”

Damn Son.......

Yeah This Sounds About Right!!!!

Beat it up Right Dance 2010 Edition!!!!!

Yeah I watch it too and this scene is Epic, Classic and Hilarious all rolled into one.

Much more arm work in this vs the classic Tyrese version here.

Tuff Break Drake.....

Hip Hop's golden boy gets caught reacting to J.B's VMA win. Drake says "I knew it" then "I Quit".
I bet a lot of artists think the same thing about you Aubrey. ;)

You Mad!?!?!

Am done, been done with the "Single Black Woman" conspiracy theories buuuut I cant front I laughed when I saw this classic imagery.