Your reaction Are Always Up To You

Anger, frustration, Joy, Relief....it's all up to you and your perspective to control how you react to laugh. When I feel folk are intentionally trying tp push my buttons, the lil voice in my head has this reaction. :)

BET AWARDS: How Full is the Cup

With less then 72hrs to completely flip their plans. The unrealistic optimist would expect the perfect MJ Tribute show. The Pessimist would expect more buffoonery and coonery. The realistic expectation was somewhere in the maybe. And that's what it was. Neyo did a great job capturing a fraction of M.J spirit while Tpain, Lil Wayne and Co. And the Un needed Baby Boy re enactment did remind us that this is still BET. But I can live with that.

BET was the guinea pig for award shows. With all the MJ tributes lined up, the the 1st one up fell upon one of the more polarizing networks yet what other station really had more genuine love for M.J then BET? All the other tributes will correct what BET didn't execute as well. Hindsight is 20/20 you know. But we got a chance to show love for one of our own.

Yes, we all have had Mike jokes, myself included ,but when its "game time" how do you present yourself? Are you the wise ass, slicc talker twitterer or do you bring some substance to the table in your words? I say that for anyone that can't take a degree of positivity in the fact that youngest sister Janet shared her thanks and grieved openly with us, then you do better. Don't talk about it be about it. Take the tools you have before you that you use to promote your sexual conquests, boast ya ego, push ya new "hot" mixtape, pretend to be the urban paris hilton or whatever nonsense you clutter the internets with and do something better.

As for me I give a degree of respect to BET. While admitting to some flaws, in a case of giving like this, its many times the thought that counts. I like to think of this cup as 1/2 full.

Tears at this point?I know I had them.......

The Generations Ultimate Man-Child

Idolized by millions yet trapped in a fantasy world of his own.

I'm torn at this moment not because of my thoughts on Michael Jackson, those are pretty straight forward. It's humanity as a whole especially that cyber crowd that has me in "Rant Mode". But I'll address that my next post.



Prior to Friday the last time Mike was even on my mind was during my viewing of the Dreams' new video that JacC'd M.J's look and "Scream" video a little too much.But beyond that was he a pillar of my existence?NO. But just cause "I didn't know him" or "He ain't doing anything for me" or whatever silly ass "I'm too real to care" comments I've heard, that doesn't mean that I/we can't some degree of humanity for the loss of a human life period. Save the Celeb CSI shit cuz it's between Him and God whats ills he has committed against anyone.And last time I checked R.Kelly was caught on tape doing his deed and folk still love him.But I digress.....



Whatever we consider success Mike surpassed it 10 fold. No matter how big Kanye, 50, Beyonce, Jay-Z or anyone else gets, you'll be hard pressed to see another artist have ABC,NBC,CBS,MTV
Inspite of all things, in the end I hope M.J had some degree of peace in his final moments. He's done too much to not at least get that. Even in unconsciousness, I hope he heard the words and prayers of his siblings and parents. I pray that should his place be in heaven that the love and well wishes of those he has touched lift his soul up to a better existence.Unfortunately, as is too often the case, he'll be loved more in death then in life.......




In case you would like to utilize this technology to cover the aftermath of M.J's passing in a relatively calm and controlled manner. I'd suggest that you hit up Miss Info's page which is basically ground zero to reach all important MJ info, tributes and coverage.In addition there is a well laid out tribute page on Hot 97.

Not a happy fitness guy........

I want to say Loud and Clear that Bally's Total Fitness can kiss my ass!!!!

I just get word that the Bally's in my town that I've been a member of for 10 yrs is closing in 1 week. I've put close to $3000 into that gym adn now due there 1/2 ass business and accounting practices, which has had them in chapter 11 since 2007 they make this bullshit move. The nearest Bally's total fitness clubs are at least 2 towns away. When I get home from Connecticut I have no desire to drive all the way to Yonkers, Portchester or the damn Bronx to workout. I'm 5 mins. from the gym. It was the embodiment of convenience. This isn't going to stop my fitness plans you can believe that. But at the moment I'm pissed beyond belief.

The only people that are smiling now are the owners of the New York Sports Club that opened up right next door.

FULL STORY HERE

Y'all ain't fooling no one!!!!(NWS)

While riding home I once again saw 2 former co workers from my Home Depot days. It's a mother/daughter and its clear that the genes responsible for over sized chesticles was not lost on the daughter from her overly busty mom. I'ma see about getting a pic tomorrow to better illustrate my point but what hit me about them were their "Here are my boobs now stare at them" outfits that we both were wearing and have worn from the 1st day I met them.

I'm of the mind set that females no matter what they may say, more often then not LOVE their boobs and take varying degrees of pleasure in being about to put those babies on a platter(fashionably speaking). If that is the case I'll tell you this. Don't say shit to me when I look at them. You've been warned......


Image Via Theboobs Blog

MASSIVE BOOBS SALUTE!!!!!!!!
(Hit the numbers)
1.......2........3................DAMN!!!!!

Monday Madness

Ummmm yeah. Here we go....

This month is almost over already??!What?Memorial day is next week and I feel like 2 weeks behind. Finances are a little tight.Not unexpectedly but still tight.

The fitness side of things is going great but on the flip side I need to take a couple hrs and make some real progress in this book.

I need some relief....that's an open ended statement as relief can be any number of things.

Other random stuff.......Swizz Beats finally speaks on Alicia(anyone that can find love iSUPPORT).......Boston gets sent home(Tuff Break Rondo)......I find that Boyfriend #2 Song to be silly as hell.......The world still seem to be Drake crazy(I'm still not sure what it is but maybe I'll catch on later.)......I'm waiting on an answer to a question that may or may not severely effect a friendship.....Had a great Nexus meeting.......breakfast is never filling enough for me anymore......want IHOP.

Internet = Double Edged Sword

You know all the dumb shit you think in ya head that nobody hears?Well, the internet has allowed far too many folk to share that shit.

....logging off before I incriminate myself. :P

Damn, not another one.....lol

This happens to me a lot.I'll be reading a random blog and I'll see a comment that is real intelligent and I'll say "hey she had a great view on this.Let me see what her blogs are like." A few moments later the screen is refreshing and I'm waiting to see the blog.....then BAM!!!!!! Not a single thought, view or opinion in relation to life overall but pixels and pixels of MAKE-UP!!!!Make up tutorials, new make up products, supplies, etc,etc......I'm like "DAMN, WHERES THE BLOG?!?!?"

Don't get me wrong I have no problem with MUA's. Some very important people to me are in that field but its just a momentary buzz kill when looking forward to maybe seeing one thing and and seeing something else.

Alright I'm done..............Random.

Step Yo Game Up: Dell Shipping Dept. Guy

OK first off I'm glad for the speed with which Dell processed my order so that a positive BUT as you can see above they put my Blu Tooth Acessories and my new web cam in this big ass box and as you see there is no bubble wrap, no supportive cardboard insulation, no nothing.You can literally shake the shit out of this box and damage everything into. Come on now. You know who ever was putting my order together ran out of smaller boxes, didn't want to want across to get more and just put my items in this over sized box. I wish my stuff would have been damaged. Anyway, Dell shipping dept guy, STEP YO GAME UP!!

Nasty Bastards

If you work in a place with a full kitchen.Doesn't it piss you off to no end watching nasty folk in the kitchen?They make coffee and leave the little empty sugar wrappers on the counter.They spill the milk all over the place or use cream cheese for the bagels and leave the open cream cheese just sitting there.Nasty bastards.....

Cats and Birds????

So, in the past couple days I've had a few convo's with various female friends on the topic of of how females act towards each other. Both in regards to relationships with men and just generic everyday interaction. It perplexes me so much at the level of misinterpretation, assumptions, high defensiveness, catty bitter bullshit that seems to be present.For the most part the vast majority of my female fam don't act like that, or at least don't act like that around me. But it's just crazy to me. I was called naive for questioning why women don't work together more instead of having this almost inner competition ( be it direct or indirect) with each other. I don't know. I can be wrong but it just seems like females have so much against them already that at the very least they'd band together more. Enlighten me please......

Put a Ring on it you Say??????

Funny Beyonce Rant via Necole Bitchie. LOL