New Ebook "The Myth of the Multiple Orgasm" by Lincoln A Blades

Just in time for hump day Toronto, Ontario's own Lincoln Anthony Blades debuts his 1st Ebook for the grown and sexy. "The Myth of the Multiple Orgasm" is as serious as the named implies. If you familiar with his successful Podcast and Blog then you know its truth served with no filter. Cop the first in the series of upcoming projects.... *Purchase Here*

A Different Yet Understandable View on the World

The Sit Down With Dee Vazquez: Blog Rappers Vs. Street Rappers

Dee Vazquez Sits Down with Big K.R.I.T., Skyzoo, Torae, Uncle Murda and Jason Rodriguez (Part 1) from itsthebino.com on Vimeo.

Dee Vazquez brings us another sit down. Today the topic is the important/value of online blog presence vs the classic street rapper presence.

....can someone tell me why Uncle Murda is ever in anyone's interview???



In Part 1 of The Sitdown With Dee Vazquez, the panel discusses blog rappers versus street rappers. Skyzoo talks about balancing blog presence and street presence. Jason Rodriguez and Torae talk about Lil B and what it means to go “viral”. And Big K.R.I.T. calls in to discuss online presence and what his career path has been like so far. In part 2 of the sit down with Dee Vazquez, Skyzoo talks about what it takes to get your music on some of the most popular rap blogs, Torae talks about building relationships with bloggers, and Jason Rodriguez discusses what MTV looks for in an up and coming artist.

Via Bino

Rambling at 9pm......

I'm emotionally tired. Not in a beat down manner but the energies needed to make certain things happen are just not in me at the moment. They've been spent trying to make things happen and when they don't pan out it takes time to get those energies back. Funny thing is that while the energy is low, emotions rarely run out. So you want what you want, you miss who you miss regardless of what the circumstances are. My outward presentation to the world is stoic and calm. But there are a few that know me better then that. Even fewer that do their part to help make life a little more pleasant.

As I think about the future I wonder what I'd tell my child about dealing with their feelings and the opposite sex. Would I tell my son to be open and expressive? To man up and never show weakness? Would I tell my princess what the majority of boys really want. Yeah I'm getting ahead of myself by that's how my mind works. I'm built a particular way. It's all I know and it's all that's worked for me.

I've grown and continue to do so. I look back at previous years, good times, relationships and break ups, my reactions to them, achievements and disappointments.....so much has happened. God willing so much more to experience. Yet I'm tired.....I'm tired of repetitious actions or lack of action. Words with no works. How long is it supposed to pass. We'll see....

Talib Kweli Speaks On The Black Leadership Now & Then

MTV Shows

MTV is on their annual Black History Month kick but Talib holds it down 24/7/365 so check this out.

“Without trying to disrespect anybody’s beliefs, [Martin Luther King Jr. and Malcolm X] are our prophets for our generation,” Kweli said. “In the scope of history, they haven’t been gone for too long. Someone asked me ‘Do you think the spirit of King is in hip-hop?’ And if you think about it, hip-hop wouldn’t exist without King. Our whole movement is based on Dr. King and Malcolm X.”

Kweli is right, while maybe non-violence isn’t the largest professed ethos of rap, the fact that a people can funnel their opinion, stories and experiences through an artistic venue that’s broadcast internationally is proof that King’s work wasn’t in vain. Kweli went on to discuss who he believes are some of the new leaders in the black community.

“Right now, I shouted out Marc Lamont Hill earlier, I really like that brother a lot and what he’s been able to do for our community. He’s been able to plug me in to certain things that I needed to be plugged into,” the Black Star MC said. “I work a lot with Lumumba Akinwole-Bandele and Monifa Bandele from the Malcolm X Grassroots movement, people who are in the business who are also activists as well, like April Silver and Dream Hampton. These are people that I discuss things with that I feel are the new leadership, and even on the political level — I stay far away from politics but — I like that we have politicians like Kevin Powell and Cory Booker, who apply a hip-hop mentality to what they do. Whether or not we agree on everything is secondary, they apply a hip-hop mentality and that goes as far as the president too. I appreciate these brothers and I want to support them.”

A Woman's Walk Via Sports Talk

In an attempt to answer the timeless "Why nice guys dont win" question, I came across this passage. For a few reasons I cant link back to the source but here it is uncensored...

Women, you can look at it like sports.


Women in their 30's still think they have the value of a number one draft pickwho is in their prime. When they were in their prime and got drafted they were selfish and held out because they were like I don't want to play on that team(average good guy)even though their skill set would have matched perfectly with this team(good guy). Instead they decided to force a trade and sign on draft day to play for the glamorous team(bad guy/playa)in which their skill set was a terrible match. They end up on a team with bad chemistry and complain why they are not winning(married). They end up getting traded to another team with the same results.

Now when you look back at their 13 year career. She was a parade All American number one draft pick who never won anything(married) been traded to 8 different teams(Passed around by niggas) and injuries that hold her back(kids)While the second draft pick took the opportunity to play with the first team(good guy) and won multiple titles(married with a great husband/family) Now they are in their 30's and still trying to reupthat number one draft pickmoney. Teams(niggas) laugh at her silly ass offers..and offer her the vet minimum(Jump Off)

Obviously no one's tale is exactly the same but are their points here........Yes.

In Case You Didnt Know.....

Don't make me repeat it.......

Obama on Vick: Good Message or Wasted Time????

The other day President Obama call Philadelphia Eagles owner Jeffrey Lurie to congradulate him on his signing of Mike Vick and giving him a 2nd chance to rebuild his career. According to King, the president said that released prisoners rarely receive a level playing field and that Vick's story could begin to change that. Vick has become perhaps the biggest comeback story in some time and it has been a divisive one as well. I've chatted with a few people with differing views on the matter. Some have felt the President should have better things to do. Other have said it's a positive story of redemption that should be told.

Personally, I need my President to be human. I need to be able to relate to a guy in a way beyond political stance. Sports, music, social issues matter to me, etc, etc.... I don;t know how long this convo between Obama and King lasted. I'm sure technically speaking there were other things Obama could have been doing but I don't want a robot in office. If the President had flown from Thailand just to do this then I may have a different view but I think being able to connect on an everyday man level is an important thing.

Thoughts? Views? Opinions?

Mannie Fresh Speaking on Myself and Hip Hop

Always loved Fresh for his light hearted nature and the sound that kept the Hot Boys Era Cash Money records poppin'. Fresh takes a few moments while in the MIA to drop is quality 2 cents on a few topics.

It's a Smartphone for a Reason. Answer It!

"I'm quick replying  with my Blackberry that's the point of having it. I hate seeing missed messages on my phone. And I hate waiting extra long for replies."

Via Evita Turquoise Robinson  

**Thank You. Glad I'm not the only one that sees it that way**

Week in review on the BLVD

Holiday weekend in full swing....Summer starting to pack it's bags as we get a lil Fall preview(not too fast as we'll be approching 90 again this upcoming week). But in the meantime here a quick weekly wrap up for ya.

After a watching a very spirited video about the B.S which is marriage I took to the webcam to drop my feelings in reply.
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Just cuz I can speak on whatever I want doesn't mean I will. Some things I just prefer to leave alone. Check out what I'm speaking on.
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A crazy dream tries to return me to my roots...
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Don't stop there. Help ya self to any of the 1700+ posts ;)

Not feeling Marriage???....Reply Vlogington Here

Take a few moments for the original vid then hit the jump for my reply.

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Are Fathers Necessary?

I came across a piece on CNN that spoke on the title question. Here is the opening and a link to the full piece. Its a rebuttal to a strong anti father opinion.

Germantown, Maryland (CNN) --

The Atlantic Magazine just published an article entitled, "Are Fathers Necessary?" It appears in the June issue, the month in which fathers are celebrated -- not dismissed -- and concludes that fathers are not essential.

The primary problem with the article is that it fails to ask its title question to the right group of people. What makes a man a father is the fact that he has children. Had the writer of the piece, Pamela Paul, asked her question of children, she would have gotten a much different answer.

Full Story Here

It's amazing to me that this question and the conclusion of this Pamela Paul could even be taken seriously and then published. As stated, the majority of births are results of male + female interactions so how can you question the value of 1/2 the equation. Just because many fathers have fallen short of their duties doesn't overshadow the many more that do handle their business or negect the basic worth they have.

I wouldn't even want to imagine a world without fathers.

The Difference Makers......

Many people think that us men are very base, emotionless, superficial creatures. It's believed that early statements from Semi (Arsenio Hall) in Coming to America, really is the basic male mind set.

"You're the heir to the crown of Zamunda. Your wife need only have a pretty face, a firm back side and big breasts like casaba melons."

Yuuuuup that's all we need. I position of authority and a pretty, stacked female to share it with.

Yeeeaaaah um not so much. Not that the physical aspects don't factor in but the truth is life far from perfect. And when its all said and done you may have been more physically attracted to one person but the individual you end up with brings something to the table creatively and mentally that differentiates them from the others.

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Hip Hop Ain't Dead..... Part I: The "Event Album" Where Did It Go???

Let's dive into this topic. Now many of this various Hip Hop danger points may be similar or at least relate to each other but we'll see how each has its unique threat level all it's own.

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Upcoming Blog Series: Hip Hop Aint Dead....

....But It's Got Lots Of People Trying To Kill It!!!!!

In the upcoming days I'll visit 25 factors or potential treats to the music, culture and lifestyle that is hip hop. Some positions I'll support and some I may be strongly against. Come with me starting later today for Part I The "Event Album" Where Did It Go???

What We Look For In Y'all?????

Via the Modern Day Matchmaker

Paula Patton's drops thoughts on being Bi-Racial

Does the term “biracial” offend you? Paula Patton thinks it should. The Precious star — who is the daughter of a White teacher and an African-American — is creating a stir with some remarks on race she made during an interview in the March issue of Women’s Health Magazine.

“I find [the term biracial] offensive. It’s a way for people to separate themselves from African-Americans….a way of saying ‘I’m better than that,’” says Paula, who is expecting her first son with crooner hubby Robin Thicke this spring. “I’m black because that’s the way the world sees me. People aren’t calling Barack Obama biracial. Most people think there’s a black president….People judged me because I was light-skinned. [They'd assume] I didn’t want to be part of the black race,” she says.

Being in Hollywood I think shes sees more of career/financial effect of what blacks vs whites go through. Back on our level in though I think she is right in regards to some people. I know many mixed people who their credit NEVER had turned their backs on their blackness. In fact most are like Paula in that they consider themselves black women. Yes you should never forget all the aspects of your make up but it's true how the world does see you.

In the end I think how you are raised goes far to influence what you most identify with.

Q & A Session #2

This weeks Question comes from Telisha aka Goddess Intellect.

"Good Hair" (Over)Sensitivity?

As most folk are aware, Chris Rock's movie Good Hair opened this past weekend.I haven't seen it as it's not a pressing priority but I heard that last week on Oprah a woman expressed her concern and feelings that she felt Chris was belittling black women. Her exchange with Chris went as follows:

I work in corporate America and I don’t want to be the butt of everyone’s joke when I walk out of a salon and my hair is nice and I have people walking up to me saying “Your hair is nice. Is it a weave? Is that Indian hair? ….It’s all mine”

Chris asks her if her hair is real and can he touch it. She let’s him

See, you can touch black women’s hair. The point is “we sit in the salon a long time. We don’t want you to touch it”. The trailer had me really upset. We are trying to promote positive black women and I felt as though you belittled us. When other races see the movie, they are going to laugh but they are laughing at us. If you had included other races, it would have been funny to us but it’s not.

Now to a degree I do see her point but I have to reserve judgment until I see the movie. I will say that at least from my vantage point black women are sometimes the worst and harshest critics of their fellow women. I guess I'll have to go check this out and see for myself.

Oprah Via Necole Bitchie